I recently found myself in a void… a void between who I once was & who I desired to become… Feeling out of alignment. Feeling confused & uninspired. Like I was waiting for my growth. Like I was waiting for my success. Like I was waiting for my expansion. Like I was waiting for magic to happen. But the truth is that WAS the growth, success, expansion & magic. The void is JUST as important as the exciting wins, as the huge break throughs, as hitting the milestones. The void is what LEADS to the break throughs, the wins, the milestones… the contraction before the expansion. & what changed my experience of the void was a choice. A choice about how I met that experience & who I became within it. Choosing to show up as the version of me that I desire to become… Choosing to take aligned action in the way that my higher self would… Choosing to make decisions & choices based on who I am becoming & the life I am creating… Rather than waiting for her to emerge, waiting for her to appear, waiting for her to happen… Living as her NOW, embodying her in every aspect of my life, the seen & the unseen. Because BEING her is what leads to the milestones & the success. + the thing is, you already are her, as soon as you choose to be her. I have something so exciting for you coming soon, drop me a 🤍 if you want to know what 😜 
In this episode I interview my beautiful friend & soul sister Katie Newcombe, who is a business coach helping heart-led founders gain the clarity to define what success means to them, and build a business that feels aligned, expansive & exciting. Together we explore; - Katies journey of having it "ALL" but feeling unfulfilled & miss-aligned - Creating your own definition of success & letting go of what society expects of you - Cultivating self-trust, confidence, courage & bravery to let go of other peoples rules & do things your way - Finding your purpose & letting go of the pressure to 'have it all worked out' Connect with Katie; Website; https://katienewcombe.co.uk/ Instagram; https://www.instagram.com/katienewcombe/ Connect with Becky; Instagram; @_yournextchapter_ Website; www.yournextchapter.co.uk 
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If you’re waiting for the time when you never compare yourself… If you’re waiting for the time when you’re completely ‘healed’… If you’re waiting for the time when you don’t ever get triggered by anything or anyone… If you’re waiting for the time when you don’t experience any difficult emotions… If you’re waiting for the time when you never feel insecure… If you’re waiting for the time when you have done all the ‘inner work’… If you’re waiting for the time when you’ve moved through all the shadows… If you’re waiting for the time when you feel ready… Then, your time will never come. Your experiences, your shadows, your emotions, your insecurities they’re all part of you. They’re all part of your journey. They’re all part of your growth & expansion. They’re all your opportunity. They’re all perfect. With every layer you peal back… With every part of yourself you meet… With every part of yourself you leave behind… With every version of yourself you grow into… The more you, you become. The more of your true essence that is revealed. The more expansion there is to be had. The more opportunities available to you. The more you are reminded of who you really are. 
NEW PODDY EPISODE 😘 In this episode I share teachings & perspectives around our conditioning, how & why we have learnt to deal with emotions in a particular way, the function of our brain in our emotional process, how to hold space & move through emotions in a more compassionate way + so much more 😜 Link in bio 🤍 
Happy bank holiday weekend 😍 If you haven’t seen already, the doors have re-opened to my group monthly membership Empowered & Aligned with 50% off your first month until tomorrow, so, you can join for £22.22🤍 This is a soulful sacred space for your personal development, growth & healing where we journey through; 👉🏻 A monthly theme chosen by the members (so far these have included heart led goal setting & moving through emotions) 👉🏻1 x live monthly coaching workshop to explore the theme 👉🏻1 x live monthly ceremony to be unconditionally held & supported 👉🏻1 x monthly guest masterclass with experts in the wellness industry 👉🏻Monthly resources including journal prompts, meditations & practices 👉🏻Safe supportive & encouraging community with a bunch of beautiful women 👉🏻Exclusive member discounts on my signature group programmes & 1:1 coaching 👉🏻Opportunity to become an affiliate & make some pennies from my friends & family referral scheme I know, right? What’s not to love 😜 I’d love to see welcome you in!😍 If you’re feeling the call then please use the discount code: MAY22 (expires tomorrow) P.S. one of the members this week said; ‘Spending time with you & your group of wonderful women has been life changing. Thank you for sharing your gift.’😢 Link in my bio 🤍 
My love, You weren’t born to live in fear of what others think of you You weren’t born to exist only in your mind You weren’t born to fit into a box that society has created for you You weren’t born to hold back & play small You weren’t born to live on other people’s terms You weren’t born to be like anyone else You weren’t born to be wishing your life away You weren’t born to exist on life’s treadmill, feeling depleted, oppressed, in a job you hate or in a relationship that doesn’t serve you You weren’t born to settle for less & pretend you’re happy doing what everyone else is doing You were born to feel wildly full, whole & alive in your own skin You were born to feel deeply worthy of your boldest most outrageous desires You were born to evolve into the most alive, electric version of yourself You were born to wake up every day feeling so full of gratitude that you landed on this planet, that it oozes out of every cell in your body You were born to feel so anchored in your purpose that chills ripple down your spine when you take a moment to breathe it all in You were born to be you... in your unfiltered way, in your unapologetic expression, in your own uniquely perfect way. Beautiful soul… I’d love to show you the way through my 1:1 coaching or my monthly membership... I know so deeply in every cell of my body that my souls purpose in this life time, is to lead the way, to guide you there so that you too can remember your limitless potential. 🤍 
The first solo episode in some time (woohooo!) + a beautiful invitation for you ;) In this episode, I talk about the difference between setting goals from your heart, your soul, rather than from your mind or your ego, letting go of what others expect of you & reconnecting with YOUR truth, your desires, your purpose... fulfillment is born from following your heart, listening to your own inner knowing rather than fitting into a box that society or others around you have created. COUPON CODE; MAY22 Link in bio 😘 
I used to think, I needed to be different to be liked, loved or happy... ...be more clever, be more thin, be more loud, be more fun, be more successful, be more interesting, dress differently, look differently, talk differently... So, I ended up compromising myself, people pleasing, saying what I needed to say to keep the peace, agreeing with people when I really didn't, doing what other people wanted to do when I couldn't think of anything worse, saying I was fine when I wasn't, saying I liked things when I didn't, keeping parts of myself a secret (god forbid telling people I actually LOVE gardening in my 20's and not my 70s!!), making decisions based on what others expected of me... FEELING BAD, WRONG, NOT GOOD ENOUGH. Those stories... they will always come up, no matter what you do or don’t do, who you become or don’t become. The difference is not in getting rid of the self-doubt but in rising above it. Feeling the fear & doing it anyway. Expressing your truth, even when people don’t receive it. Remaining committed to your desires, even when you doubt yourself. Accepting that no matter how you mold yourself, what you do or don't say... people will judge you anyway. Trusting that your way, your journey, your experience is perfect... for you. The truth is, your ego will find ANY excuses, reasons or justifications for not putting yourself first, not showing up fully, not following your desires, not doing that thing. When you commit to rising above your fear, self-doubt, worry & everything that comes with it... You get to be free. You get to be yourself. You get to take action, despite the fear. You get to show up, along side self-doubt. You get to feel whole, full & enough in yourself, despite judgement. You get to put your desires first, even though others don't approve. You enter into an expansive reality where that 'thing' doesn't hold you back anymore, because you decided not to let it. The version of you who you desire to be IS already within you. Infact, she is you. She is who rose above the doubt & fear & committed to showing up for herself anyway. 
New podcast episode for you 🤍 In this episode CiCi McClaran who is a mystic + mentor to awakening women, creator of The Heroines Circle online membership, and co-host of the “Conversations with CiCi and Bobbie” podcast. She is here to guide women into divine wholeness, embodied self-love, and their highest calling. We talked all things feminine empowerment, balancing feminine & masculine energies, letting go of hussling, perfectionism, proving yourself to others & instead leaning into your gifts fully, loving yourself deeply, letting go of conditioning, spiritual awakening, healing the sister wound, cultivating your own inner king AND your own inner queen + so so much more. It was AMAZING with SO much goodness. Connect with Becky; Instagram; @_yournextchapter_ Facebook Community; www.facebook.com/groups/the.hive.yournextchapter Website; www.yournextchapter.co.uk Membership; Membership (yournextchapter.co.uk) Connect with Cici; Instagram; @coachedbycici Website; www.coachedbycici.com Membership; www.coachedbycici.com/the-heroines-circle