The last three nights I have been eaten alive and kept awake by mosquitos. They seem to be getting through a vent. I've also discovered we have mice. My home is being invaded by little predators. To ad to the fun, now that winter has hit, my house is freezing cold and needs a lot of heating. And the other day I managed to melt the handle of my coffee pot leaving me sans coffee percolator. This morning I woke up to some gifts from my partner. I messaged him "WOW" "I'm now out looking for a mosquito net to hang on your bed' "you're AMAZING" I replied He messaged back "Protector đ" Oh my goodness, does it get hotter than that? Join me for tonights facebook live... "Our relationship to men - Predators? or Protectors" Come and learn how to keep your heart and body safe and call the good ones in. 7pm (AEST) t in my group Relate like a QUEEN!! I've got some really cool ideas bubbling for more lives to come in that group... đ Go to my Bio to find me on Facebook and join the group 
HOW I KEPT MYSELF SAFE AS AN ESCORT VISITING 3000 PLUS MEN. Lately I've had a highly unusual and absolutely uncharacteristic fascination with 'True Crime' movies and documentaries. This is NOT a genre I normally feel drawn to but for reasons I can't explain I been gorging on it. Fascinating stuff! In particular the 'Serpent' and 'Surviving R. Kelly' have left an imprint. "Coincidently" (I don't believe in coincidences) I was watching 'Surviving R. Kelly' the same week I was filming and preparing the boundaries module in Love Savvy. Gosh, it was such great fuel and inspiration for the module. My initial motivation in creating the program was to show women how much power we have in avoiding unnecessary heartbreak and suffering, and yet having said this, the teachings most certainly extend out to honing in our intuition and staying safe on all levels. Especially since oxytocin and dopamine can be SO blinding and ungrounding. Lastly, I want to point out that these horrific stories have a way of being transposed onto ALL men, feeding the bias that we already carry as women that men are to be feared. I learnt this working as an escort. You better believe that I had to be savvy, knocking on the doors of 3000 plus strangers. I had to uphold a certain clarity of mind, a relaxed nervous system in the face of certain trepidations and a shapeshifter mental agility to navigate the diversity of experiences I had with men. Just me and this stranger in a hotel room or their home. In my experience, excessive fear is a danger in itself blocking our natural capacity to be our own source of safety. Join me this Wednesday night, in Relate like a QUEEN!! for more on this topic. 7PM (AEST) Thursday 22nd April. See Bio for Facebook details 
The MATING PRINCIPLE - # EIGHTH Why being great in bed doesnât win his love Superficial attraction can lead to sex and little else. Whilst sex for women often leads to a penetration of her heart, this is not necessarily so for men. When we are sexually penetrated we are letting a man âINâ. Notice, that he however, remains âun-penetratedâ. As women, our sex is our receptive centre and our heart our penetrative centre. For men this is reversed; meaning that menâs hearts are their most vulnerable entry point. Men long to penetrate us physically, we long to penetrate men emotionally. It is because of this that men are far more guarded with their hearts than we are, and, why we are more guarded with our sex than men are. Prior to sex, we tend to do all of our evaluating, âshould we let him in or not. Is he a safe person to open to or should we wait to learn more about him before letting him in?â After the big O however, we relax our evaluations and we can become a little love drunk. Weâve done our thinking. Men on the other hand are the opposite, they start off a little lust drunk, willing to do whatever it takes to pursue us, but after the big O, they breath a sigh of relief, the way you might after youâve been satisfied by getting a drug âhitâ. It is only then that they start to evaluate whether they really want to take things further with us and to consider where this relationship is going, if anywhere at all. And believe you me, unless youâve penetrated his heart (which for men is UNRELATED to sex), it doesnât matter how great you are in bed, he will remain emotionally untouched unless you know how to attract him on a far deeper level that just the physical. âThree months on from completing Alejandraâs course, I am enjoying the beginnings of a blossoming new love. He is nothing like any man I have attracted before; he is affectionate, kind, inquisitive about me, generous with his time, an open communicator and completely into me and I find my heart opening up more and more every day, he makes me feel emotionally safe and I am savouring every moment. Client testimonial Want to learn more? Join us in https://www.alejandranicolazzo.com 
The MATING PRINCIPLE - # EIGHTH Why being great in bed doesnât win his love Superficial attraction can lead to sex and little else. Whilst sex for women often leads to a penetration of her heart, this is not necessarily so for men. When we are sexually penetrated we are letting a man âINâ. Notice, that he however, remains âun-penetratedâ. As women, our sex is our receptive centre and our heart our penetrative centre. For men this is reversed; meaning that menâs hearts are their most vulnerable entry point. Men long to penetrate us physically, we long to penetrate men emotionally. It is because of this that men are far more guarded with their hearts than we are, and, why we are more guarded with our sex than men are. Prior to sex, we tend to do all of our evaluating, âshould we let him in or not. Is he a safe person to open to or should we wait to learn more about him before letting him in?â After the big O however, we relax our evaluations and we can become a little love drunk. Weâve done our thinking. Men on the other hand are the opposite, they start off a little lust drunk, willing to do whatever it takes to pursue us, but after the big O, they breath a sigh of relief, the way you might after youâve been satisfied by getting a drug âhitâ. It is only then that they start to evaluate whether they really want to take things further with us and to consider where this relationship is going, if anywhere at all. And believe you me, unless youâve penetrated his heart (which for men is UNRELATED to sex), it doesnât matter how great you are in bed, he will remain emotionally untouched unless you know how to attract him on a far deeper level that just the physical. âThree months on from completing Alejandraâs course, I am enjoying the beginnings of a blossoming new love. He is nothing like any man I have attracted before; he is affectionate, kind, inquisitive about me, generous with his time, an open communicator and completely into me and I find my heart opening up more and more every day, he makes me feel emotionally safe and I am savouring every moment. Client testimonial Want to learn more? Join us in https://www.alejandranicolazzo.com 
The MATING PRINCIPLE - # SEVEN Tell the truth (your agenda is a MAJOR turn off) Stop pretending that you donât want what you do want or that you do want what you donât want. One of the reasons why he may not be showing you the attention that you desire is because he can sense that you are not being completely honest with him. I know you think you should win an academy award for your performance Goodness, you may have even managed to fool yourself But He can sense what you REALLY want from him and because you are hiding it, he doesnât really trust you. When you go on a date and he asks you âwhat are you looking for?â and you lie with âI just want to have fun, nothing seriousâ On the surface he may take you at your word, it may even suit him to do so, but he WILL intuit that you are not telling the truth and keep a distance. I once had a heart to heart conversation with a man who I was sharing a weird energy with âIâve been avoiding you because you come across like a total playerâ I finally summoned up the courage to say He replied âI get that a lotâ but then he said something that really shocked me. âIâve been avoiding YOU because you seem like the kind of woman that wants to possess her menâ I was gobsmacked. Well yeahâŚ. It was true! He had smelt that energy off me, and oh my god, so had every other guy I had ever dated. Itâs far sexier when you are unashamed and straight up about who you are and what you want If he isnât on the same page. Great. Itâs best you know right away! âMy clarity and power to attract is such a new concept for me.â Client testimonial Want to learn more? Join us in https://www.alejandranicolazzo.com/Allure 
The MATING PRINCIPLE - # SEVEN Tell the truth (your agenda is a MAJOR turn off) Stop pretending that you donât want what you do want or that you do want what you donât want. One of the reasons why he may not be showing you the attention that you desire is because he can sense that you are not being completely honest with him. I know you think you should win an academy award for your performance Goodness, you may have even managed to fool yourself But He can sense what you REALLY want from him and because you are hiding it, he doesnât really trust you. When you go on a date and he asks you âwhat are you looking for?â and you lie with âI just want to have fun, nothing seriousâ On the surface he may take you at your word, it may even suit him to do so, but he WILL intuit that you are not telling the truth and keep a distance. I once had a heart to heart conversation with a man who I was sharing a weird energy with âIâve been avoiding you because you come across like a total playerâ I finally summoned up the courage to say He replied âI get that a lotâ but then he said something that really shocked me. âIâve been avoiding YOU because you seem like the kind of woman that wants to possess her menâ I was gobsmacked. Well yeahâŚ. It was true! He had smelt that energy off me, and oh my god, so had every other guy I had ever dated. Itâs far sexier when you are unashamed and straight up about who you are and what you want If he isnât on the same page. Great. Itâs best you know right away! âMy clarity and power to attract is such a new concept for me.â Client testimonial Want to learn more? Join us in https://www.alejandranicolazzo.com/Allure 
The MATING PRINCIPLE - # SIX If you donât love men, they wonât love you back From all of the work that I have done with women, one thing has become blatantly clear; many, many, many women are, deep down, FULL of fear, disdain and disrespect when it comes to men. Beneath the crush, the infatuation, the desire, the hope, there is intense distrust and Iâm sad to say, even a dislike of men. Women will look at the sensitivity of a little boy and forget that that same sensitivity still resides with the men around them. And ladies, I donât blame you. Men hide it well. But when they donât hide it well⌠Well, we donât like that so much either. Itâs got to be just the right amount of sensitivity mixed in with just the right amount of masculine prowess. Hereâs the problem, we complain about not been seen But not only do you NOT reveal yourself (why would you, when men canât be trusted with the REAL you) women DO NOT see men. They superimpose rom-com / villainous characters onto the men around them. Itâs not bad. Not wrong. It's just what we have been programmed to do. One minute she is batting her eyelashes sighing âhe is different from the restâ the next she is is calling him a âjerkâ In order to attract you need to EMPTY yourself of everything that is blocking your magnetic vortex. Seriously, take a minute to try this on. When you meet a man, see if you can stay neutral. Donât make any assumptions about who he is, just see him, feel him, be genuinely curious about him. Extra points for trying this with a man you already âknowâ ;) You will be amazed at what you discover And how he responds to you. "After our last date yesterday, he wrote and said he was basking in the afterglow of one of the best days he had had in a long time with one of the most beautiful people he had ever met and was feeling full of hope for many more dates ahead. He send me messages every day to check in and tells me, in some sweet way, that he thinks I am amazing and gorgeous. I canât tell you how much I longed to get messages like that my whole life and have never elicited before" Client Testimonial Learn more... https://www.alejandranicolazzo.com/Allure 
The MATING PRINCIPLE - # SIX If you donât love men, they wonât love you back From all of the work that I have done with women, one thing has become blatantly clear; many, many, many women are, deep down, FULL of fear, disdain and disrespect when it comes to men. Beneath the crush, the infatuation, the desire, the hope, there is intense distrust and Iâm sad to say, even a dislike of men. Women will look at the sensitivity of a little boy and forget that that same sensitivity still resides with the men around them. And ladies, I donât blame you. Men hide it well. But when they donât hide it well⌠Well, we donât like that so much either. Itâs got to be just the right amount of sensitivity mixed in with just the right amount of masculine prowess. Hereâs the problem, we complain about not been seen But not only do you NOT reveal yourself (why would you, when men canât be trusted with the REAL you) women DO NOT see men. They superimpose rom-com / villainous characters onto the men around them. Itâs not bad. Not wrong. It's just what we have been programmed to do. One minute she is batting her eyelashes sighing âhe is different from the restâ the next she is is calling him a âjerkâ In order to attract you need to EMPTY yourself of everything that is blocking your magnetic vortex. Seriously, take a minute to try this on. When you meet a man, see if you can stay neutral. Donât make any assumptions about who he is, just see him, feel him, be genuinely curious about him. Extra points for trying this with a man you already âknowâ ;) You will be amazed at what you discover And how he responds to you. "After our last date yesterday, he wrote and said he was basking in the afterglow of one of the best days he had had in a long time with one of the most beautiful people he had ever met and was feeling full of hope for many more dates ahead. He send me messages every day to check in and tells me, in some sweet way, that he thinks I am amazing and gorgeous. I canât tell you how much I longed to get messages like that my whole life and have never elicited before" Client Testimonial Learn more... https://www.alejandranicolazzo.com/Allure 
The MATING PRINCIPLE - # FIVE Fall in love with your feminine expression... And he will too! You know that time that you were ugly crying and snot was running down your face? You were so surrendered, raw and real. He thought you were the most beautiful thing heâd ever seen. Unbeknownst to you his heart and his sex were overwhelmed with desire and love. Your softness and openness was so arousing to him. His heart felt wide open a by a sense of care for you. You know that time you lost your shit and yelled at him? Recall how that rage soured through your body. The volcanic heat that rose through your belly, your solar plex, up your shoulders and through your throat as you screamed and shook your head and pounded your fits. It was a sight to behold. He watched you in awe at the intensity of your fury, a little afraid and a little excited. He thought you were nuts, but he fell in love with you a little more that day. You know that time you thought your partner was home and so you got totally lost in your imaginary world? You were singing, you were dancing, you were cooking up a storm to some daggy beats, you were completely immersed in your own world expressing a âsillinessâ you wouldnât dare show anyone. And it turned out that he WAS home, and he was having a quiet giggle to himself feeling completely enchanted by your movement. You know that time he looked at you and caught you off guard? You were feeling particularly exposed that day. You weren't prepared with your regular mask of âcool girlâ indifference. You blushed. Thatâs right, you went bright red. You everted your eyes and when he came over to say hello you stammered. As he walked away you were so embarrassed! You let him see straight through you. And yet unbeknownst to you that was the first time that he became intrigued by you and asked for your number. There is nothing more inspiring to a man than your feminine transparency. Believe it or not, itâs the parts of you that you hide, the parts that you feel ashamed of, that the man that is meant for you will find the most loveable. Want to learn more? Join us in https://www.alejandranicolazzo.com/Allure (click link in Bio) 
Believe it or not, there is nothing more inspiring to a man than your feminine transparency. "I have come so far with being comfortable around men, I love myself more richly, I accept my wildness and love my anger, I have rebuilt my beliefs around men and I fully believe I am an incredible partner with so much to offer regardless of where I'm at because it's all beautiful, even the mess. I am much more accepting of myself and can truly be myself. This work was a gamer changer for me! It transformed my relationship to myself and to the men around me and for that I will be forever grateful." Client Testimonial Want to learn more? Join us in https://www.alejandranicolazzo.com/Allure 
The MATING PRINCIPLE - # 4 Men need space to be attracted to you. The masculine has a natural desire to penetrate. He gets turned on, enlivened, and grows in his masculine power when he does. When he is celebrated for his power to penetrate he becomes proud, joyful and he wants to give more of himself. But in order for him to do that we must receive him. Have you tried penetrating a brick will? Have you tried penetrating someone that is trying to penetrate you? Itâs a huge turn off and it just doesnât work. So you must allow him the SPACE to penetrate you. He longs to penetrate you with his⌠Eyes Words Sex Actions When you talk non stop you are penetrating the space When you call him, you have penetrated the space When you lean into him, you have penetrated the space When you initiate the next date, you have penetrated the space Iâm certainly not saying you can NEVER do these things, but IF he is NOT coming to you⌠He either isnât interested (hasnât chosen you - see principle one) OR He may feel that he doesnât have the space he needs to penetrate Lean back and let him come to you. âMy biggest highlight from working with Alejandra is that I can now attract a quality partnerâ Client Testimonial Want to learn more? Join us in https://www.alejandranicolazzo.com/Allure 
The MATING PRINCIPLE - # 4 Men need space to be attracted to you. The masculine has a natural desire to penetrate. He gets turned on, enlivened, and grows in his masculine power when he does. When he is celebrated for his power to penetrate he becomes proud, joyful and he wants to give more of himself. But in order for him to do that we must receive him. Have you tried penetrating a brick will? Have you tried penetrating someone that is trying to penetrate you? Itâs a huge turn off and it just doesnât work. So you must allow him the SPACE to penetrate you. He longs to penetrate you with his⌠Eyes Words Sex Actions When you talk non stop you are penetrating the space When you call him, you have penetrated the space When you lean into him, you have penetrated the space When you initiate the next date, you have penetrated the space Iâm certainly not saying you can NEVER do these things, but IF he is NOT coming to you⌠He either isnât interested (hasnât chosen you - see principle one) OR He may feel that he doesnât have the space he needs to penetrate Lean back and let him come to you. âMy biggest highlight from working with Alejandra is that I can now attract a quality partnerâ Client Testimonial Want to learn more? Join us in https://www.alejandranicolazzo.com/Allure 
The MATING PRINCIPLE - # 3 Distilling the energetics of attraction A lesson in chemistry Have you ever wondered why you have chemistry with some people and not with others? What if you truly understood the mechanics of attraction and could activate them at will. In this post Iâm going to lay it down for you⌠In science physics class you would have learnt that attraction is the polarisation of a positive and a negative ion. Interestingly whilst this is taught in physics it is still a CHEMICAL process by means of which researchers have succeeded in controlling magnetic properties in bulk ferromagnets. As humanâs we also hold the capacity to turn on our positive "IONâs", so to speak, or to neutralise them, or visa versa. Take a moment to really think about that; Imagine if you knew how to do that. You would hold a super power. The process would begin by tuning into the energy that the other was exuding: i.e. are they walking around with their positive "ION" turned on? Or their negative "ION". Once you have naturally identified their disposition, you would then activate the opposite. And Vuola - you have successfully created magnetism. Some people do this intuitively without cognitively understanding what it is they are doing. Others do it because it is part of our innate nature, and yet most of us have lost this capacity because we have been conditioned out of it. By the way, if you THINK you have learnt this and it didnât work for you, or you find it difficult to sustain, you are doing it wrong and you hold a faulty understanding of the âIONâsâ I speak of. Because... Magnetism works EVERY TIME. A charged positive ION and a charged negative ION will always result in magnetism. âI am magnetising/ manifesting much more potently. Iâm feeling confident in myself and the men I am attracting are so much more in line with my values. Iâm experiencing heart opening, intimacy, connection and honesty like never before... like maybe never has someone been so giving and open and solid with me. And not run away from my emotions.â Client Testimonial Want to learn more? Join us in https://www.alejandranicolazzo.com/Allure 
The MATING PRINCIPLE - # 3 Distilling the energetics of attraction A lesson in chemistry Have you ever wondered why you have chemistry with some people and not with others? What if you truly understood the mechanics of attraction and could activate them at will. In this post Iâm going to lay it down for you⌠In science physics class you would have learnt that attraction is the polarisation of a positive and a negative ion. Interestingly whilst this is taught in physics it is still a CHEMICAL process by means of which researchers have succeeded in controlling magnetic properties in bulk ferromagnets. As humanâs we also hold the capacity to turn on our positive "IONâs", so to speak, or to neutralise them, or visa versa. Take a moment to really think about that; Imagine if you knew how to do that. You would hold a super power. The process would begin by tuning into the energy that the other was exuding: i.e. are they walking around with their positive "ION" turned on? Or their negative "ION". Once you have naturally identified their disposition, you would then activate the opposite. And Vuola - you have successfully created magnetism. Some people do this intuitively without cognitively understanding what it is they are doing. Others do it because it is part of our innate nature, and yet most of us have lost this capacity because we have been conditioned out of it. By the way, if you THINK you have learnt this and it didnât work for you, or you find it difficult to sustain, you are doing it wrong and you hold a faulty understanding of the âIONâsâ I speak of. Because... Magnetism works EVERY TIME. A charged positive ION and a charged negative ION will always result in magnetism. âI am magnetising/ manifesting much more potently. Iâm feeling confident in myself and the men I am attracting are so much more in line with my values. Iâm experiencing heart opening, intimacy, connection and honesty like never before... like maybe never has someone been so giving and open and solid with me. And not run away from my emotions.â Client Testimonial Want to learn more? Join us in https://www.alejandranicolazzo.com/Allure 
"Hello grumpy" he says noticing my expression "Hello" I say remaining grumpy as I walk past him and wrap myself in bed "You tired are you, ... that's ok" he says kindly "What were you doing?" I ask him in a whiny voice "I was outside, talking to the moon" "I got tired of waiting for you" My voice has gone from whiny to sooky "I wasn't gone for that long" he says amused "I waited and waited and waited" I continue "and my hands and feet are so cold, I just can't get warm He comes over to my side of the bed, brings the heater close to my feat, pulls my feet out from under the covers and begins to massage them with warm oil. Ahhh, heaven After he has completed the feet massaging ritual, he says, would you like a hot water bottle? "That would be amazing" I reply 
The MATING PRINCIPLE - #2 Looks alone wonât get you far There is no doubt that physical beauty is a powerful activator of sexual attraction. Men do naturally gaze at, enjoy and become aroused by certain physical features. In fact a man may even become enamoured by a physically beautiful woman. He may want to obtain her for his sexual pleasure or as a prize to validate who he is. This attraction however is shallow, and in and of itself, wonât lead to him opening his heart to her. It will appeal to men that are afraid to open their hearts and hence feed off the âicingâ with no interest for the âcakeâ. Eventually it gets boring and is easily replaceable. Pretty girls are a dime a dozen. There are so many beautiful women in the world, if he only enjoys the icing, why wouldnât he want to partake in many different flavours. This is not the type of attraction that I want for you. And whether a man knows it or not, it is not the type of attraction he really wants either. Most men, deep down, are longing to have their hearts cracked open to the bliss of a womans fullness; the raw unadulterated essence of that which she hides under the think layers of (icing) mascara. Unlike the derma fillers, the hair extension, the gel manicures and hours at the gym, the knowledge you obtain in this program will stay with you a lifetime and open the door to being truly seen and loved for the enigmatic, radiant beauty that you are. A beauty that exits far beyond the beauty myth. âBefore working with Alejandra, I would describe myself as either the 'in between' or the 'good time not long time' girl. The men that I would attract were always distant, elusive and emotionally unavailable and never truly interested in knowing who I was and there was no natural flow when getting to know each other. I found myself trying to fit myself into what I thought they wanted constantly questioning what, if any, the connection was. It was really lonely and I spent so much time in my head! Today I am a new woman. A new woman with a new man! Crazyâ Client Testimonial Want to learn more? Join us in https://www.alejandranicolazzo.com/Allure 
The MATING PRINCIPLE - #2 Looks alone wonât get you far There is no doubt that physical beauty is a powerful activator of sexual attraction. Men do naturally gaze at, enjoy and become aroused by certain physical features. In fact a man may even become enamoured by a physically beautiful woman. He may want to obtain her for his sexual pleasure or as a prize to validate who he is. This attraction however is shallow, and in and of itself, wonât lead to him opening his heart to her. It will appeal to men that are afraid to open their hearts and hence feed off the âicingâ with no interest for the âcakeâ. Eventually it gets boring and is easily replaceable. Pretty girls are a dime a dozen. There are so many beautiful women in the world, if he only enjoys the icing, why wouldnât he want to partake in many different flavours. This is not the type of attraction that I want for you. And whether a man knows it or not, it is not the type of attraction he really wants either. Most men, deep down, are longing to have their hearts cracked open to the bliss of a womans fullness; the raw unadulterated essence of that which she hides under the think layers of (icing) mascara. Unlike the derma fillers, the hair extension, the gel manicures and hours at the gym, the knowledge you obtain in this program will stay with you a lifetime and open the door to being truly seen and loved for the enigmatic, radiant beauty that you are. A beauty that exits far beyond the beauty myth. âBefore working with Alejandra, I would describe myself as either the 'in between' or the 'good time not long time' girl. The men that I would attract were always distant, elusive and emotionally unavailable and never truly interested in knowing who I was and there was no natural flow when getting to know each other. I found myself trying to fit myself into what I thought they wanted constantly questioning what, if any, the connection was. It was really lonely and I spent so much time in my head! Today I am a new woman. A new woman with a new man! Crazyâ Client Testimonial Want to learn more? Join us in https://www.alejandranicolazzo.com/Allure 
ONLY WHEN YOU LET GO OF THAT IRRESISTIBLE MR WRONG DOES YOUR MR RIGHT HAVE A CHANCE TO FIND YOU CLEAR. THE. SPACE Allure: Become a Man Magnet start March! Join us in https://www.alejandranicolazzo.com/Allure 
BURNING DOWN YOUR HOUSE - IN THE NAME OF LOVE No, I'm not a sadist that enjoys watching your life go up in flames but often, when I work with clients, and they gather the courage to start burning shit up, it gives me great, GREAT pleasure. "Oh my god, I can't believe I just did that" they say I smile like a cheshire cat "How exciting!" "Now what?" they say "What ever you WANT?" I reply exhilarated It is in these moments that I know I am doing my job I see only too clearly what has to go... and usually much has to go. Whether it's current relationships that aren't working for them, a job they are just tolerating, that the unprocessed pain that is lying dormant in their belly, or a bunch of outdated belief that are keeping them stuck AND OUT OF LOVE. The sooner we destroy the shit that doesn't serve them, the sooner we get to creating their paradise. AND THIS GOES FOR YOU AS WELL! The sooner YOU destroy the shit that doesn't serve YOU, the sooner YOU get to creating YOUR paradise. If you are done with the OLD, and want to create the relationship and life that you LURVVVV, and if you are willing to do whatever it takes to create it, take a deep breath, shoot me a message. I'll go and grab the matches 
BURNING DOWN YOUR HOUSE - IN THE NAME OF LOVE No, I'm not a sadist that enjoys watching your life go up in flames but often, when I work with clients, and they gather the courage to start burning shit up, it gives me great, GREAT pleasure. "Oh my god, I can't believe I just did that" they say I smile like a cheshire cat "How exciting!" "Now what?" they say "What ever you WANT?" I reply exhilarated It is in these moments that I know I am doing my job I see only too clearly what has to go... and usually much has to go. Whether it's current relationships that aren't working for them, a job they are just tolerating, that the unprocessed pain that is lying dormant in their belly, or a bunch of outdated belief that are keeping them stuck AND OUT OF LOVE. The sooner we destroy the shit that doesn't serve them, the sooner we get to creating their paradise. AND THIS GOES FOR YOU AS WELL! The sooner YOU destroy the shit that doesn't serve YOU, the sooner YOU get to creating YOUR paradise. If you are done with the OLD, and want to create the relationship and life that you LURVVVV, and if you are willing to do whatever it takes to create it, take a deep breath, shoot me a message. I'll go and grab the matches