As a wedding photographer, I've heard lots of couple's vows. Whenever I hear that the couple has decided to write their own vows I never know what's going to happen. I've heard everything from hilarious to so sweet there isn't a dry eye at the wedding. If you choose to write your own vows they don't have to be hilarious/serious/sweet/a tearjerker. As long as they're from the heart, that's all that really matters. (Psst... I promised to always be a Notre Dame in mine) 
Cute matching robes are not only a great bridesmaid's gift, they make for some cute photos while getting ready. Plus there's the added benefit that you something to wear that doesn't have to go over your head and ruin your hair and makeup. 
Hannah had the most gorgeous blush dress for her wedding. When dress shopping I recommend trying different colors and/or styles. You might find that the dress you fall in love with looks nothing like the one you thought you wanted. 
I'm all about the first look. I know it's not traditional, but they do have their benefits. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ 1⃣ They give you a chance to get more photos of the two of you. After the ceremony, it becomes a bit of a rush and you want to get to your reception to celebrate.⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ 2⃣ It gives you a chance to have a private moment with your spouse to be before the ceremony.⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ 3⃣ I know some couples think it will take away some of the emotion from the moment you see each other during the ceremony, but trust me, I've seen lots of couples still have all the emotions and even some tears. 
I love photographing details on a wedding day. It's like photography warm up and I get to be creative with the details my couples have. I especially love it when my couples include something sentimental in their details. It's unique to them and I feel so honored to capture that detail.