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I just had NO idea what was coming😭🙏🏻⠀ ⠀ November 24th, 2019 I was sitting in the Austin airport after a trip when I launched my brand new company ❤️ ⠀ I didn’t know then the anxiousness & self-doubt that would come when I chose to pivot from what I KNEW WELL (building my well established Network marketing biz) to what I knew NOTHING about; starting a new company from the ground up 😩 & of course I didn’t expect a global pandemic 🤪 its impact on the world, my biz or that it would help us realize we’re finally ready to put down roots & move from San Diego to Austin, Texas just 7 months later 🤣 But the kicker?⠀ ⠀ I also didn’t know the PRIDE & deep FULFILLMENT that would come from learning how to navigate all of that... & finally listening to my gut & making the move to do something that TRULY felt aligned to me again & has now helped so many women because of it😭🙏🏻 ⠀⠀ Now I’m sitting here, 11 months later in the floor in my new office.... @shegoes.company has a global personal development community that will hit 1500 women this month, that back then was just an idea.😭 We built an amazing podcast course that’s helped over 100 women launch THEIR podcasts 😭 & now a merch line is about to launch that has a few SKU’s now with big expansion plans & has 10% of profits going to help support @thelovelandfoundation 😭 & im like WHOA; lemme soak this moment in for a sec🙏🏻 ⠀ Cuz truly, if you stop & think about the fact that there’s a prior version of you who never thought she could handle what she’s handling now... I bet you’ll feel SO PROUD too 😭🙏🏻 ⠀ Cuz truly, EVEN in the messy MIDDLE of chasing our dreams we can remind ourselves that we’re CAPABLE, WORTHY & that we will get wherever the hell we want if we keep putting out reps & whole HEART in. ❤️ Remember girl, you’re inspiring people who pretend to not even SEE you & future you is going to look back & be like DAMN girl; you did it 😱 ⠀ A lot can happen in a year. So keep going k? ⠀ Comment below if you’re WITH me👇🏻 & Merch it officially launches to the Collective on Friday, & next week to all! You ready for this?! ⠀ #livelifeonpurpose #shegoescollective #empoweredwomenempowerwomen
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The beginning is when you SUCK THE MOST🤪⠀ ⠀ You also lack CONFIDENCE because you have NO PROOF you can look back as evidence it will work out. 😩⠀ ⠀ & some people that once felt like they understood you, don’t quite get why you care so much about this thing you’re doing.🤷🏼♀️⠀ ⠀ & it’s HARD🙏🏻⠀ ⠀ When I chose to go down this entrepreneurial path the BEGINNING was TOUGH. ⠀ ⠀ If you’re in it you might be wondering if it’s ever going to be worth it 🙏🏻⠀ ⠀ If so,I hear you.⠀ & yes theres always a price; you decide if you’re willing to pay ❤️⠀ ⠀ The price for me at the beginning was some REALLY late nights & ridiculously early mornings building my side biz alongside a full time corporate job.⠀ ⠀ That job made SO much sense on paper which made me feel kind of crazy not feeling fulfilled in it but in my gut knew I wanted more 🙏🏻 ⠀ ⠀ There were A LOT of tears wondering if it would workout the way I hoped & a lot of doubt of if I could handle it if it did. 😭⠀ ⠀ & as I started to develop a bigger CIRCLE of influence, I simultaneously developed a much SMALLER circle of people who really truly understood me & my passion. 🙏🏻⠀ ⠀ That part was REALLY tough.😭⠀ ⠀ But I didn’t just learn to DEAL WITH IT; I learned to OWN IT. ❤️⠀ ⠀ OWNING IT helped me develop DEEPER relationships w/ my non-entrepreneurial friends, as I learned how to better support THEM & their paths, but I ALSO intentionally added people in my life that were entrepreneurs too.⠀ ⠀ OWNING IT also helped me build rock solid belief in my ability to handle anything that comes my way. ⠀ ⠀ This path equip me w/ the confidence to launch my podcast EmpowerHER 🎙& then in January of 2020 pivot out of a biz I loved, to now focus on @shegoes.company ❤️⠀ ⠀ This year I got to start back at the beginning biz stage, but now with the belief to know it‘s worth it & the confidence to handle the tough times🙏🏻⠀ ⠀ So remember girl, when you want to WISH away the HARD, I would question, is that what you REALLY want? ⠀ ⠀ Cuz EASY ROBS YOU OF PROUD.⠀ ⠀ & EASY robs you of the PROOF you’ll need in the future to look back & say, “even when it’s hard, I’ve got this” ⠀ ⠀ Future you is counting on you ❤️⠀ Will you keep showing up?
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GIVEAWAY ALERT🙌🏻⠀ We just passed 2 MILLION downloads in less than 2 years of EmpowerHER podcast 😭🙏🏻⠀ ⠀ Cue the cheesy gigantic balloon 🎈 but truly I want to THANK YOU from the bottom of my heart because I am HONESTLY blown away by this😭🙏🏻⠀ ⠀ To every person who has listened to EmpowerHER, DM’d me how it’s impacted you, shared it with a friend or on social media...⠀ ⠀ I appreciate you so freaking much. 🙏🏻⠀ ⠀ To celebrate YOU & this incredible community we’re building with the podcast, and passing 2 million downloads....⠀ ⠀ We’re doing a FUN GIVEAWAY for TEN, YES 10 😱of you!! ⠀ ⠀ Because there is absolutely NO WAY that this podcast would have spread like this if it wasn’t for YOU🙏🏻⠀ ⠀ In honor of this milestone that WE accomplished.... ⠀ ⠀ I want TEN of you babes 💁🏼♀️💁🏻♀️💁🏽♀️ to get your choice of your very own SheGoes company sweatshirts (the official line launches to collective members on 10/30 & to non-members on 11/2) but swipe right to see the two sweatshirts launching🙌🏻🙌🏻⠀ ⠀ So....How do you enter?⠀ ⠀ ▪️You must be following this account @kacia.fitzgerald 👯♀️ & @shegoes.company 💃🏻⠀ ⠀ ▪️Then tag 3 girlfriends below 👯♀️(or more if you’re feeling saucy) in a comment below sharing why you think they would vibe with this podcast’s mission of empowering you with TOOLS to build a life you really freaking love 💕⠀ ⠀ ✨All 10 Winners will be announced on Friday October 30th!!🙌🏻⠀ ⠀ As always I am SO grateful for YOU & your support & also always here to be your friend to light a fire 🔥 under your cute bootayyy if I can ❤️ ⠀ ⠀ & babe Remember.... even if you’re scared, do that thing on your heart 🙏🏻⠀ ⠀ Because maybe it won’t workout the way you planned....⠀ ⠀ But what if it’s even BETTER?! 😭⠀ ⠀ Cheers to YOU girl, & to JUST warming up babyyy! 🔥 ⠀ ⠀ #podcastersofinstagram #giveaway #shegoescollective #womenownedbusiness #smallbusinessowner #atxlife
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We’re often our own worst critics aren’t we?⠀ ⠀ So I want to remind you.... if you are in the MIDDLE of a TOUGH season; remember you won’t be here FOREVER. 🙏🏻⠀ ⠀ Some seasons are character, grit & resilience building where you've just gotta hang on, give yourself grace & do the best that you can right?⠀ ⠀ I bet you're doing hell of a lot better of a job than you might be giving yourself credit for.🙏🏻⠀ ⠀ & I bet a girlfriend of yours is inspiring you, that doesn’t even know it & could probably really benefit from hearing it ❤️⠀ ⠀ Tag her below & remind her how strong she is 👇🏻⠀ ⠀ Let’s be the lights in a world that sometimes feels really damn heavy, you with me? 💃🏻
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Cheers to what could have been our WEDDING WEEK🙌🏻⠀ But isn’t. 🤣🤪⠀ ⠀ You see, we got engaged July 4th, 2019, 💍 after 10 years of dating. ❤️⠀ ⠀ Booked a venue 3 days later at a BEAUTIFUL vineyard to have a massive wedding in Southern California on October 24th, 2020. ⠀ ⠀ 3 months later when it came time to actually plan the wedding, we decided that venue wasn’t what WE wanted, it was what we thought OTHER PEOPLE would want for us. ⠀ ⠀ & making choices based off what OTHER people want us to do is not our jam. 🤷🏼♀️⠀ ⠀ So we cancelled the venue. 🙌🏻⠀ ⠀ We decided let’s just enjoy being engaged & we would figure it out in spring. ⠀ ⠀ Then COVID hit. 😳⠀ ⠀ & here we are, Engaged as F with a big TBD on when this thing happens🤷🏼♀️⠀ ⠀ & lately I’ve had a few of these “OKAY, I’VE BEEN SO POSITIVE THIS WHOLE TIME during COVID & now IM OVER THIS, I WANT TO GET MARRIED THE WAY WE WANT & NOW”. 🤣⠀ ⠀ & after saying that, I feel kind of ANNOYED w/ myself.😩⠀ ⠀ I feel annoyed because I know this is such a SMALL problem compared to people who are in SUCH TOUGHER situations right now because of the impact of COVID on THEIR LIVES. ⠀ ⠀ But then I think of the advice I would give a girlfriend in my situation & it would be...⠀ ⠀ “WHOA! YOU ARE HUMAN & DESERVE to get to FEEL WHATEVER YOU ARE FEELING WITHOUT JUDGEMENT, let alone from YOURSELF. 🙏🏻⠀ ⠀ Especially in 2020, we are ALL navigating a WHOLE WHIRLWIND of emotions, & change let’s give OURSELVES &OTHERS a little extra GRACE right?”⠀ ⠀ So cheers to YOU. 🥂 ⠀ ⠀ The woman who is willing to let herself SIT in an emotion if she needs to for a second without writing it off as “stupid”.🙏🏻⠀ ⠀ Yes, Perspective is HUGE, & re-framing to find the positive is POWERFUL. ⠀ ⠀ But the women I admire most? ⠀ ⠀ They know that vulnerability & RAW honesty is a damn SUPER POWER & ignoring feelings is bound to have them exploding later🤣⠀ ⠀ So yes girl, lose it sometimes, but just don’t unpack there k? Keep doing the best you can & know that’s ALWAYS enough❤️⠀ ⠀ You feel me?! ⠀ ⠀ & COVID BRIDES— comment below I want to know how you’re navigating this, GIMME THE JUICE!👇🏻⠀ ⠀ #covidbridetobe #engagedAF #bestiesfortheresties
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I can ABSOLUTELY live with someone not liking me, or thinking I’m “too much”.🤪⠀ ⠀ I mean some people definitely think that and here I am alive, it’s all good 🤣🤷🏼♀️⠀ ⠀ But truly, I can’t live with “shoulda woulda couldas” or “someday” because to me that might mean be “NEVER”.😭🙏🏻⠀ ⠀ That’s why I’m willing to try things, even if I don’t know the outcome....including move across the country from a city we LOVED, 6 weeks after deciding to do it 😱...⠀ ⠀ Even though I knew we’d have to start all over with the unfamiliar & I would have to do the, “hi 👋🏻 I’m Kacia I’m new here” to make friends again in a new city, which is a whole new ball game during Covid 🤣🤪⠀ ⠀ But honestly.... ⠀ ⠀ Can you imagine getting to end of your TBD amount of days with a crap ton of regret for not living the life you COULD have lived? ⠀ ⠀ We often are scared of failure, or taking a chance, But what about REGRET?⠀ ⠀ In our culture look at taking a “RISK” to do that thing we feel called to do as a NEGATIVE “COST”....⠀ ⠀ But we often forget about OPPORTUNITY COST... the cost of missed HAPPINESS you COULD have if you DID do it… ⠀ ⠀ The missed IMPACT, FULFILLMENT, INCOME that you WILL NOT experience if you don’t DO IT?⠀ ⠀ Girl, You’re a multi passionate, constantly evolving person... you can’t be put in a box. ⠀ ⠀ But you’ll feel stuck like your smushed in one, if you don’t push yourself to do things you’ve never done before right?⠀ ⠀ If you don’t chase those dreams on your heart. ❤️⠀ ⠀ I say....⠀ ⠀ Switch career paths if you want. ⠀ Start the blog. 🙏🏻⠀ Build the business. ⠀ ⠀ Or hey, Launch that podcast 🎙 (& yes girl Ive got your back on this we just opened our last round of our intimate #SheGoespodcasting course for 2020, so holla at me if you want in) 🤣⠀ ⠀ Or honestly girl, set some BIG ASS goals in your life, the kind that make you wanna pee yourself just thinking about 🤣⠀ ⠀ Because maybe it’s not just about you right? ⠀ ⠀ Maybe a whole lot of other girls LIKE you will BENEFIT from your 5 seconds of, “F it let’s do it” bravery. 🙏🏻🙏🏻⠀ ⠀ & girl...⠀ What an amazing feeling that will be. 🙏🏻 ⠀ ⠀ Double tap or comment below if you’re with me.🙌🏻🙌🏻⠀ ⠀ #atxlife #shegoespodcasting
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“Alright mom, we’ve got a new two year plan & you’re going to like it cuz it’s going to end with us trying to start making a mini human🤣”. ⠀ ⠀ As you can imagine my mom hearing the word “BABY” come up initiated by her 31 year old daughter in conversations more often makes her pretty pumped. 🤣⠀ ⠀ At the end of my “LIFE PLAN” TED TALK via FaceTime to my mom…⠀ ⠀ We both laughed, knowing I only make plans to get DIRECTION, get HYPED & simultaneously calm my OWN anxiety of “WHAT THE F AM I DOING”down🤣 ⠀ ⠀ But truly, what has REALLY helped me become COMFORTABLE with CHANGE, & navigating this whole “TIMELINE” society preaches at us…⠀ ⠀ Is STANDING FIRM IN TWO THINGS: ⠀ ⠀ #1- I do NOT believe things will go EXACTLY according to the PLAN no matter HOW well crafted the plan is cuz I think it will ALWAYS end up BETTER 🙏🏻⠀ ⠀ #-2- No matter what happens; I believe RUTHLESSLY in my ability to FIGURE OUT any “HOW” to get me where I want to go. ❤️⠀ ⠀ So truly, instead of spending my time in a lot of ANXIETY FILLED “WHAT IF THIS HAPPENS OR THIS DOESN’T HAPPEN THOUGHTS”….⠀ ⠀ I focus ALL of my EFFORT LOOKING FOR ways to BUILD up CONFIDENCE & BELIEF in myself to handle ANY OUTCOME. 🙏🏻⠀ ⠀ & ironically a couple weeks after that talk w/ my mom I got an OPPORTUNITY to test that skill out when I learned I have a hormonal imbalance going on that I now have to change some things in my life, cuz it can also impact FERTILITY later if I don’t 🤪⠀ ⠀ & I honestly I don’t know if I would have even THOUGHT about it, if I didn’t start asking myself what I could do NOW that a TWO YEAR ahead version me might thank me for😉 ⠀ ⠀ So even though it’s frustrating, what a blessing to learn this NOW rather than later 🙏🏻⠀ ⠀ So girl, I just wanted to remind you if you’re ANXIOUS or WORRIED about ANYTHING right now…⠀ ⠀ You’re not alone. 🙏🏻⠀ ⠀ But I don’t believe you were gifted ANY vision in your heart if you aren’t also gifted the ABILITY to figure out any HOW along the path to get you there ❤️⠀ ⠀ But I hope along the way, you look for ways to feel PROUD of the WOMAN you’re becoming through this🙏🏻⠀ ⠀ Human-ing can be tough sometimes, but you’re tougher 😘⠀ We’ve got this ❤️⠀ ⠀ You with me? 👇🏻
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It’s not the BIG moments, but the seemingly insignificant moments when it hits me....⠀ ⠀ Like as we are lying on our couch... (one that might I add we waited weeks & multiple delays to get 🤣) with my favorite human who moments after this picture was taken I started crying to.... 🙏🏻⠀ ⠀ I guess I’m just realizing that THIS is what we worked for. ⠀ ⠀ Not the couch🤣, but the LIFE. 🙏🏻⠀ ⠀ The choices & moves we’ve made that some people never understood.⠀ ⠀ The times I had to be my own biggest fan, & seena poured belief into me day in and day out long before anyone was clapping for me. ⠀ ⠀ The times I doubted myself because being an entrepreneur is really damn hard, cried, wiped my blue blockers off 🤣 & kept going because I knew I couldn’t live with a “what if?”⠀ ⠀ THOSE moments got us here.🙏🏻⠀ ⠀ & as I feel in real time doors opening, and options for our future that I couldn’t have NEVER imagined back when I never thought I’d be able to get through my,⠀ ⠀ “What the F am I doing with my LIFE stage”...⠀ ⠀ Which might I add, the most recent was only ONE YEAR ago deciding if I would make a transition to pivot my focus from network marketing to building my own business 🙏🏻⠀ ⠀ Somehow it feels even better to be here now BECAUSE I know I really had to work for it.⠀ ⠀ I know that the GRIT earned me this flow 🙏🏻⠀ ⠀ So to you... ⠀ The woman with the big dreams, ⠀ You’re going to want to quit.⠀ Cuz you’re a human, not a robot- welcome to the club 😉⠀ ⠀ You’re also going to think you’ll never get “there”.⠀ ⠀ But you will. ⠀ & when you do... you’ll think back at the woman you once were with so much admiration.... ⠀ ⠀ & you’ll realize you never “arrive” because once you see how far you’ve come... you’ll wonder how much further you can go. ⠀ ⠀ I won’t give up on me.⠀ You don’t give up on YOU.⠀ ⠀ & let’s blow our minds with how wildly capable we are, no matter what curveballs come our way. ⠀ ⠀ You in? ⠀ ⠀
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Sometimes you’re doing the ugly cry where your mascara & snot get together and all up in your MOUTH.⠀ Sometimes it feels like you have SO far you have to go til you get where you want to be.⠀ Sometimes it feels like you’re pushing that Monster Truck tire up a hill. ⠀ ⠀ I’ve BEEN there & truly I know FOR SURE I’ll be there again simply because that’s the PATH that’s required when you’re chasing dreams not everybody understands. ⠀ ⠀ & girl, those times ESPECIALLY- YOU’VE GOT TO BE YOUR OWN BIGGEST FAN. ⠀ You’ve got to CLAP for yourself.⠀ You’ve got to LET yourself feel PROUD of the person you are becoming despite the DISTANCE you have until you reach your goals. ⠀ ⠀ & along the way— Make BUILDING CONFIDENCE & CONVICTION IN YOURSELF an absolute PRIORITY so you can keep your head in the game. ⠀ ⠀ I really think that will help. ⠀ ⠀ & TRULY— for a woman like YOU with crazy DRIVE, HEART AND AMBITION— what’s the alternative anyway? ⠀ ⠀ YOU STAY in what’s FAMILiAR because you think COMFY will be EASIER AND have to deal with the pain of REGRET of always wondering... ⠀ ⠀ “WHAT IF I would have TRIED? ⠀ “What IF it would have been so impactful? ⠀ “What if I would have LOVED THIS THING?” ⠀ “What if I would have been SO good at this?”⠀ “WHAT if I would have changed my whole damn life?” ⠀ ⠀ OR……WHAT WOULD HAVE HAPPENED IF I DIDN’T GIVE UP? ⠀ ⠀ ⠀ I say choose the CHOICE THAT has more POTENTIAL fulfillment & happiness on the other end . ⠀ Cuz then you’ll never have to worry about regret. ⠀ ⠀ ⠀ & girl… if you need a friend to light a fire 🔥 under your bootay this morning, I know a girl with a podcast😉⠀ It’s called empowerHER 🎙 let me know if you check it out.⠀ ⠀ & know I’m rooting for you always.⠀ ⠀ Double tap or comment below if you’re with me & BRINGING it today 👇🏻
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I don’t wanna measure my success by how productive I am.🤷🏼♀️⠀ ⠀ Truly, I did that for a long time.⠀ ⠀ It’s REALLY easy to do in a culture where “BUSY” is glamorized & worn like a badge of honor. ⠀ ⠀ It’s like we’re socialized to think BUSYNESS= WORTHINESS.⠀ ⠀ But honestly when we moved to Texas, I intentionally decided this is a new chapter.⠀ ⠀ & asked myself... ⠀ ⠀ “What matters to me NOW?”⠀ “What HABITS have got to go, & what habits need to be built in?” ⠀ ⠀ I decided it was time for me to tap out of that busy = successful, game forever and start to implement new boundaries✌🏻 ⠀ ⠀ Even as an entrepreneur who is OBSESSED with what I do, & my business is growing at a rapid rate that I’m unbelievably grateful for... ⠀ ⠀ I’m committed to not caving to this “grind your face off” culture or being an EXAMPLE of someone constantly plugged in, when I don’t believe that’s good for anyone’s mental health. ⠀ ⠀ I want you to chase ALL of your BIG dreams & goals.⠀ I want to help light a FIRE under your bootay to do 👏🏻 the damn 👏🏻 thing. ⠀ ⠀ But I don’t want you to be burnt out on LIFE.⠀ ⠀ I now measure my success by my ability to be present where my feet are. 🙏🏻⠀ ⠀ Which means when I work, I WORK HARD. ⠀ But when I play, I PLAY hard 🙏🏻⠀ ⠀ & gosh it feels so good 🙏🏻⠀ ⠀ So girl, if you’re closing out your weekend feeling like some projects didn’t get done or you TO-DO’s didn’t get crossed off your list....⠀ ⠀ But this weekend your priorities involved RE-BOOTING, or un-plugging with the people you really freaking care about....⠀ ⠀ Then it sounds like you did exactly what you needed 🙏🏻⠀ ⠀ & tomorrow you’ll freaking crush it cuz you’re REJUVENATED. ❤️⠀ ⠀ Perspective is everything... ⠀ So I just wanted to remind you, as go getter women we can be our own worst critics but from my view, you’re killing it 😉✌🏻 ⠀ ⠀ You with me? ⠀ ⠀ Also shout out to Fredricksburg,TX (aka wine country about an hour outside of Austin), that was an epic time 💃🏻⠀ ⠀ ⠀ #atxlife #livelifeonpurpose #fredricksburgtx #austintexas #winecountry
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YOU will NOT feel STUCK forever, but the path toward getting UN-STUCK might REALLY freaking SUCK...⠀ ⠀ But just for a little bit, I promise🙏🏻⠀ ⠀ Yep, you might have to ugly cry a few times about it, the kind where your snot & mascara mush together & get in your mouth. 😭🤪⠀ ⠀ You might SERIOUSLY question if your capable of your dream, that big goal or handling that life choice you’re making. 🙏🏻⠀ ⠀ You might be worried, & ridiculously anxious of what other people think of you doing that thing, or feel guilty that you might let them down or disappoint them. 🙏🏻⠀ ⠀ & you might wonder if it will even be worth it🙏🏻⠀ ⠀ But what if you just stopped yourself & said, wait....”THIS feeling is normal” 🙌🏻⠀ ⠀ There’s nothing “wrong” with you, this is just what it FEELS like to grow.🙏🏻⠀ ⠀ You’re not alone.⠀ ⠀ People just don’t talk about it on their carefully curated perfection social media designed to showcase that they’ve got their shit together when really none of us do 🤣🤷🏼♀️⠀ ⠀ So no, GROWTH, PIVOTS & change are not sexy. They sometimes suck. 🤣⠀ ⠀ But honoring your gut is ALWAYS WORTH it.⠀ ⠀ Maybe the path wont always going be linear or even FEEL good but that doesn’t mean it’s WRONG.🙏🏻⠀ ⠀ What if that FEAR or UNCOMFORTABLE FEELING that you sometimes want to SMUSH DOWN & wish away in you IS actually a GIFT?⠀ ⠀ A COMPASS to tell you its time to make a change? ⠀ ⠀ Try something new. ⠀ Push for a bigger goal. ⠀ Leave a relationship that’s not serving you.⠀ Move to the place you’ve always wanted to live. ⠀ ⠀ & when you feel RESISTANCE, remind yourself that YOU are SUPPOSED to GROW & CHANGE as a constantly evolving person ❤️⠀ ⠀ You’re working this hard on yourself to stay the same are you? 😉⠀ ⠀ Remember, you always have the choice to settle for GOOD & wonder “what if” or push through the muck & go for what you really want; really freaking GREAT. 🙏🏻⠀ ⠀ & if this hits home w/ you be sure to check out the EmpowerHER 🎙 episode today, where I share some REAL talk on PIVOTS 🙏🏻⠀ ⠀ If you listened in, be sure let me know what you ❤️⠀ ⠀ Im rooting for you foreva eva ✌🏻 ⠀ Double tap or comment below if you’re w/ me 👇🏻⠀ ⠀ #shegoescollective #livelifeonpurpose
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I don’t think my title or how much money is in my bank is going to matter at the end, do you? 🤪⠀ ⠀ Being a “CEO” or “Top Podcaster” sounds cool & is fun but is not super sexy because both just require good old fashion consistent WORK & the occasional “WTF am I doing” ugly cries like anything right?🤣 ⠀ ⠀ & truly, I knew when I pivoted out of my last biz I built in network marketing, I would be giving up the constant ego boosts I used to get that came from sharing the income I made/accolades I had & instant credibility that often came with said income & ranks. ⠀ ⠀ But from that pivot this cool thing happened...⠀ ⠀ I don’t value myself for ANY of those external⠀ things anymore 🤷🏼♀️⠀ ⠀ I don’t value myself for my ability to earn a lot of money, even though I am humbled & grateful I do🙏🏻⠀ ⠀ & I don’t value myself for being “BUSY” wearing it like a BADGE of honor or “GRINDING & HUSTLING” like I used to.⠀ ⠀ I value myself for my CONSISTENT pursuit to be more ME unapologetically.❤️⠀ ⠀ To be even MORE honest, in a world of carefully curated & help people to fall in love with the PROCESS rather than what the process can PRODUCE.❤️⠀ ⠀ & I value myself for the kind of fiancé, friend, & daughter I am because of how much intentional effort I put into those relationships. 🙏🏻⠀ ⠀ So yes maybe chasing the big paycheck or the fancy title, or even what someone will think of us HAVING those things can get us moving toward BIGGER dreams...⠀ ⠀ But I don’t think that will KEEP most of us going, do you? ⠀ ⠀ Because when our days are over we aren't going to take a fancy car, job titles or our money with us.⠀ ⠀ The REAL legacy we can leave is the way we made people FEEL 🙏🏻⠀ ⠀ The legacy I am working on leaving?⠀ ⠀ A crap ton of LOVE I’ve invested in people that matter most. ❤️⠀ Tons of ENCOURAGEMENT I’ve poured into hopefully one day millions of people to build CONFIDENCE to chase THEIR dreams. 🙏🏻⠀ ⠀ & the reminder that being themselves is the REAL PRIZE 🙏🏻⠀ ⠀ We’ve got one shot here, so I say we stay focused on the stuff that will matter MOST at the end...⠀ You with me? ❤️⠀ ⠀ Sidenote, do you have a dog that likes to be carried like a child or just us? 🤣🤷🏼♀️ #livelifeonpurpose