• I remember counting down the hours until I could toss out my fake ID and go to the bar as MYSELF (sorry dad 🤣) when I turned 21....⠀ ⠀ That was 10 years ago TODAY 🙏🏻⠀ ⠀ & truly, turning 31 tomorrow is not nearly as exciting as turning 21 🤪⠀ ⠀ I know nothing will change when I wake up tomorrow & Iet’s be real I am DEFINITELY not staying up til midnight tonight like I did back then to wait for 12:01🤣⠀ ⠀ But I’ll wake up at age 31.😱⠀ With the same guy by my side I had at 21 (swipe right to us as 21 year old babies🥰) & while life looks so much different than I thought it would for us at this age... ⠀ ⠀ The FOUNDATION we built together over the last 11.5 years reminds me that when all those things come... we’ll be able to navigate it all even BETTER, with MORE excitement as TEAMMATES than we would have if it happened on some arbitrary timeline I imagined🙏🏻⠀ ⠀ & full transparency ... I feel a sense of security beyond anything I’ve ever felt going into 31.⠀ Maybe you can connect with that as you get older?⠀ ⠀ For me it’s not security because of finances, or titles, or career choices... it’s just I feel confident enough in my ability & mindset to handle whatever comes my way now🙏🏻⠀ ⠀ Maybe life is ALWAYS rigged in our favor... just not always on our timeline🙌🏻⠀ ⠀ In case you need the reminder (as we all⠀ Do from time to time)... regardless, of age, I think you’re right on time, right on track & exactly where you need to be 🙏🏻⠀ ⠀ My plan for every year?⠀ ⠀ Find ways to be MORE me, get obsessed with the stage of life I’m in now in pursuit of where I wanna go & find NEW ways to love the same guy 4evaaaa eva. ⠀ ⠀ 31, I’m ready for ya✌🏻⠀ ⠀ #thisis31
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    I remember counting down the hours until I could toss out my fake ID and go to the bar as MYSELF (sorry dad 🤣) when I turned 21....⠀ ⠀ That was 10 years ago TODAY 🙏🏻⠀ ⠀ & truly, turning 31 tomorrow is not nearly as exciting as turning 21 🤪⠀ ⠀ I know nothing will change when I wake up tomorrow & Iet’s be real I am DEFINITELY not staying up til midnight tonight like I did back then to wait for 12:01🤣⠀ ⠀ But I’ll wake up at age 31.😱⠀ With the same guy by my side I had at 21 (swipe right to us as 21 year old babies🥰) & while life looks so much different than I thought it would for us at this age... ⠀ ⠀ The FOUNDATION we built together over the last 11.5 years reminds me that when all those things come... we’ll be able to navigate it all even BETTER, with MORE excitement as TEAMMATES than we would have if it happened on some arbitrary timeline I imagined🙏🏻⠀ ⠀ & full transparency ... I feel a sense of security beyond anything I’ve ever felt going into 31.⠀ Maybe you can connect with that as you get older?⠀ ⠀ For me it’s not security because of finances, or titles, or career choices... it’s just I feel confident enough in my ability & mindset to handle whatever comes my way now🙏🏻⠀ ⠀ Maybe life is ALWAYS rigged in our favor... just not always on our timeline🙌🏻⠀ ⠀ In case you need the reminder (as we all⠀ Do from time to time)... regardless, of age, I think you’re right on time, right on track & exactly where you need to be 🙏🏻⠀ ⠀ My plan for every year?⠀ ⠀ Find ways to be MORE me, get obsessed with the stage of life I’m in now in pursuit of where I wanna go & find NEW ways to love the same guy 4evaaaa eva. ⠀ ⠀ 31, I’m ready for ya✌🏻⠀ ⠀ #thisis31
  • Last time I checked nobody’s an “expert” on how to handle a global pandemic, massive race & social issues, natural disasters, major economic changes and the craziest election of all time simultaneously 🤪⠀ ⠀ So girl, I see you trying to GROW through this, and I admire it so much, but don’t forget to take a second feel PROUD of yourself along the way. 🙏🏻⠀ ⠀ Just because you can CARRY it, doesn’t mean it’s not heavy; It’s a LOT for all of us❤️⠀ ⠀ But, when the world feels DARK & TOUGH, I know it’s easy to feel like there’s no light at the end of the tunnel...⠀ ⠀ Or that nothing you could say, or do can help.🙏🏻⠀ ⠀ But truly I see an opportunity for us to take this darkness & LIGHT up the world to be even brighter BECAUSE of how we lean in & learn from this TOGETHER 🙏🏻⠀ ⠀ I say, why not practice LESS judgement & naysaying & More compassion & empathy.⠀ ⠀ For OTHERS, but also for OURSELVES ❤️⠀ Are you with me? ⠀ ⠀ Drop a heart or comment below 👇🏻❤️⠀ ⠀ #livelifeonpurpose #shegoescollective
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    Last time I checked nobody’s an “expert” on how to handle a global pandemic, massive race & social issues, natural disasters, major economic changes and the craziest election of all time simultaneously 🤪⠀ ⠀ So girl, I see you trying to GROW through this, and I admire it so much, but don’t forget to take a second feel PROUD of yourself along the way. 🙏🏻⠀ ⠀ Just because you can CARRY it, doesn’t mean it’s not heavy; It’s a LOT for all of us❤️⠀ ⠀ But, when the world feels DARK & TOUGH, I know it’s easy to feel like there’s no light at the end of the tunnel...⠀ ⠀ Or that nothing you could say, or do can help.🙏🏻⠀ ⠀ But truly I see an opportunity for us to take this darkness & LIGHT up the world to be even brighter BECAUSE of how we lean in & learn from this TOGETHER 🙏🏻⠀ ⠀ I say, why not practice LESS judgement & naysaying & More compassion & empathy.⠀ ⠀ For OTHERS, but also for OURSELVES ❤️⠀ Are you with me? ⠀ ⠀ Drop a heart or comment below 👇🏻❤️⠀ ⠀ #livelifeonpurpose #shegoescollective
  • Have you ever felt like your STORY wasn’t POWERFUL enough to share & inspire?😩⠀ ⠀ Or that your life circumstances weren’t in a “BAD ENOUGH” spot to NEED to make a change?⠀ ⠀ If so, me too girl.🙏🏻⠀ ⠀ Unlike many women I now know who’ve seen success in the entrepreneurial space.... ⠀ I had a GREAT career path I LOVED, income trajectory, managers, friends & boyfriend turned fiancé BEFORE I went down this entrepreneurial path....⠀ ⠀ I didn’t have massive debt, extreme tragedy or hardships to overcome or even a chip on my shoulder to prove someone wrong who didn’t believe in me.... ⠀ ⠀ & before you say “oh lucky you”.. think how CRAZY that felt?! ⠀ ⠀ I had so many things on paper that so many of my girlfriends also had & were HAPPY with but I constantly felt like I was on the wrong path & didn’t know what the HELL else I should do..... ⠀ I felt SO WEIRD, ALONE & honestly kind of GUILTY that I wasn’t feeling FULFILLED 🙏🏻⠀ ⠀ I would cry to Seena saying things like....⠀ ⠀ “What the hell is wrong with me, I “should” be happy right?⠀ ⠀ I felt selfish to be unhappy.⠀ I mean SO many people are WORSE off than me, how STUPID to complain right? ⠀ ⠀ Maybe you can relate to those feelings?⠀ ⠀ If so, can I remind you while it doesn’t FEEL like good in the moment, honoring (& not trying to wish away) that feeling is a POWERFUL gift to YOURSELF & the world🙏🏻⠀ ⠀ Cuz girl, this problem you learn to solve for YOURSELF now might also be a problem you solve for a HER out there too. 🙏🏻⠀ ⠀ So even when it’s tough because you feel “lost” on what’s “next”....⠀ ⠀ Even when it feels CONFUSING AF trying to figure out what you wanna do here on the planet...& maybe you catch yourself ugly crying to your significant other in the reg🤣🤷🏼‍♀️⠀ ⠀ Please don’t give up trying. 🙏🏻⠀ Please keep showing up. ⠀ ⠀ Future you is SO proud of you for not giving up.❤️⠀ ⠀ & you have NO idea who is watching you & will be inspired to take action in THEIR lives by watching you take your GOOD & turn it into GREAT 🙏🏻⠀ ⠀ Double tap or comment below if you are w/me 👇🏻& feel free to tag a GF who might vibe with this mtoo❤⠀ ⠀ #shegoescollective #ATX #Austin #livelifeonpurpose #podcastersofinstagram #enneagram7
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    Have you ever felt like your STORY wasn’t POWERFUL enough to share & inspire?😩⠀ ⠀ Or that your life circumstances weren’t in a “BAD ENOUGH” spot to NEED to make a change?⠀ ⠀ If so, me too girl.🙏🏻⠀ ⠀ Unlike many women I now know who’ve seen success in the entrepreneurial space.... ⠀ I had a GREAT career path I LOVED, income trajectory, managers, friends & boyfriend turned fiancé BEFORE I went down this entrepreneurial path....⠀ ⠀ I didn’t have massive debt, extreme tragedy or hardships to overcome or even a chip on my shoulder to prove someone wrong who didn’t believe in me.... ⠀ ⠀ & before you say “oh lucky you”.. think how CRAZY that felt?! ⠀ ⠀ I had so many things on paper that so many of my girlfriends also had & were HAPPY with but I constantly felt like I was on the wrong path & didn’t know what the HELL else I should do..... ⠀ I felt SO WEIRD, ALONE & honestly kind of GUILTY that I wasn’t feeling FULFILLED 🙏🏻⠀ ⠀ I would cry to Seena saying things like....⠀ ⠀ “What the hell is wrong with me, I “should” be happy right?⠀ ⠀ I felt selfish to be unhappy.⠀ I mean SO many people are WORSE off than me, how STUPID to complain right? ⠀ ⠀ Maybe you can relate to those feelings?⠀ ⠀ If so, can I remind you while it doesn’t FEEL like good in the moment, honoring (& not trying to wish away) that feeling is a POWERFUL gift to YOURSELF & the world🙏🏻⠀ ⠀ Cuz girl, this problem you learn to solve for YOURSELF now might also be a problem you solve for a HER out there too. 🙏🏻⠀ ⠀ So even when it’s tough because you feel “lost” on what’s “next”....⠀ ⠀ Even when it feels CONFUSING AF trying to figure out what you wanna do here on the planet...& maybe you catch yourself ugly crying to your significant other in the reg🤣🤷🏼‍♀️⠀ ⠀ Please don’t give up trying. 🙏🏻⠀ Please keep showing up. ⠀ ⠀ Future you is SO proud of you for not giving up.❤️⠀ ⠀ & you have NO idea who is watching you & will be inspired to take action in THEIR lives by watching you take your GOOD & turn it into GREAT 🙏🏻⠀ ⠀ Double tap or comment below if you are w/me 👇🏻& feel free to tag a GF who might vibe with this mtoo❤⠀ ⠀ #shegoescollective #ATX #Austin #livelifeonpurpose #podcastersofinstagram #enneagram7
  • Feeling a little,⠀ “UGH 😩 can I actually DO this?” ⠀ “Am I ever going to get there?”😭⠀ ⠀ Or just so damn overwhelmed you kinda wanna poke a fork in your eyeball? 🤪🤣⠀ ⠀ Well I just wanted to remind that you’re SO wildly capable. 🙏🏻⠀ ⠀ You’re actually a damn FORCE.⠀ ⠀ & when it’s tough... ⠀ & you have those very HUMAN moments doubting your own ability...⠀ ⠀ Remind yourself you have been through harder things in your life, so YES you can handle this too. 🙏🏻⠀ ⠀ Future you is counting on you to keep showing up, simply just doing the best you can. ⠀ ⠀ She‘s going to look back you now BEAMING with pride one day for how you handled this all❤️⠀ ⠀ & girl lets be real, THIS season right here, curveballs & all, we often want to wish away...⠀ ⠀ But what an OPPORTUNITY it is to show yourself what you’re made of.🙏🏻⠀ ⠀ Resilience & GRIT aren’t built when it’s all rainbows 🌈 butterflies 🦋 & happy little unicorns.... their built navigating the TOUGH. ⠀ ⠀ So dust yourself off.⠀ KEEP getting back up girl. ⠀ One day at a time.⠀ One foot in front of the other. ⠀ ⠀ Remember, You’re never “struggling”, you’re just mid-conquer. 😉 ⠀ ⠀ Double tap or comment below if you’re with me or tag a GF who might like this reminder too❤️⠀ ⠀ #EasyRobsYouOfProud #shegoescollective #podcastersofinstagram #enneagram3 #enneagram2
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    Feeling a little,⠀ “UGH 😩 can I actually DO this?” ⠀ “Am I ever going to get there?”😭⠀ ⠀ Or just so damn overwhelmed you kinda wanna poke a fork in your eyeball? 🤪🤣⠀ ⠀ Well I just wanted to remind that you’re SO wildly capable. 🙏🏻⠀ ⠀ You’re actually a damn FORCE.⠀ ⠀ & when it’s tough... ⠀ & you have those very HUMAN moments doubting your own ability...⠀ ⠀ Remind yourself you have been through harder things in your life, so YES you can handle this too. 🙏🏻⠀ ⠀ Future you is counting on you to keep showing up, simply just doing the best you can. ⠀ ⠀ She‘s going to look back you now BEAMING with pride one day for how you handled this all❤️⠀ ⠀ & girl lets be real, THIS season right here, curveballs & all, we often want to wish away...⠀ ⠀ But what an OPPORTUNITY it is to show yourself what you’re made of.🙏🏻⠀ ⠀ Resilience & GRIT aren’t built when it’s all rainbows 🌈 butterflies 🦋 & happy little unicorns.... their built navigating the TOUGH. ⠀ ⠀ So dust yourself off.⠀ KEEP getting back up girl. ⠀ One day at a time.⠀ One foot in front of the other. ⠀ ⠀ Remember, You’re never “struggling”, you’re just mid-conquer. 😉 ⠀ ⠀ Double tap or comment below if you’re with me or tag a GF who might like this reminder too❤️⠀ ⠀ #EasyRobsYouOfProud #shegoescollective #podcastersofinstagram #enneagram3 #enneagram2
  • I don’t LIVE in DENIAL land with butterflies 🦋 unicorns 🦄 & little rainbows 🌈 coming out of my butt; But I DO believe it’s POSSIBLE to be BOTH JOYFUL & ENTHUSIASTIC while feeling HEARTBROKEN & EMPATHETIC.🙏🏻 There are undeniably MAJOR issues going on right now feels SUPER HEAVY but I want to also hopeful 🙏🏻 So let’s think about it…. How is the increasing amount of social issues shared being RAISING the NECESSITY for us, especially born with PRIVILEGE, to actually DO something about it? How has COVID positivity effected TRAFFIC & POLLUTION now & for the FUTURE as companies realize the power of remote employees? I wonder how many entrepreneurs, podcasters, & bloggers that will make massive change in the world who’s ideas are BORN from this season? How will this season CONTRIBUTE to HUMANITY overall, as we have realized how much we once took for granted? Could this create a culture where we SEE the need to support small business’?  COULD this create a KINDER, more ACCEPTING CULTURE that wants to DO BETTER for ALL? I don’t mean to make light of REAL issues going on, but there is STILL GOOD, that’s undeniable. 🙏🏻 So I want to be BOTH, AWARE & HOPEFUL 🙏🏻 So girl, you learning new COPING MECHANISMS to navigating this season that are going to serve you later in life for FUTURE curveballs?  Maybe you’ve built the important muscle of resilience & learned to SHOW UP each day even when you’re scared or anxious? 🙏🏻 Maybe you actually needed to get SO STRESSED OUT— that you finally called your shot & changed career paths or started that dream on your heart 🙏🏻 I KNOW THE KIND OF life I want. It’s one full of borderline pee myself BELLY LAUGHS, & showing up with my whole heart while I’m here & doing my part to CONTRIBUTE rather than CRITICIZE. 🙏🏻 Remember girl, it’s hard to BE what you can’t SEE, so let’s be BOTH. Taking responsibility for how we want to show up as we navigate the hard while finding the joy each day 🙏🏻 Double tap if you‘re w/ME🙏🏻 Also, let me know if a podcast on this topic would be helpful in a comment below 👇🏻 #livelifeonpurpose #shegoescollective #enneagram7
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    I don’t LIVE in DENIAL land with butterflies 🦋 unicorns 🦄 & little rainbows 🌈 coming out of my butt; But I DO believe it’s POSSIBLE to be BOTH JOYFUL & ENTHUSIASTIC while feeling HEARTBROKEN & EMPATHETIC.🙏🏻 There are undeniably MAJOR issues going on right now feels SUPER HEAVY but I want to also hopeful 🙏🏻 So let’s think about it…. How is the increasing amount of social issues shared being RAISING the NECESSITY for us, especially born with PRIVILEGE, to actually DO something about it? How has COVID positivity effected TRAFFIC & POLLUTION now & for the FUTURE as companies realize the power of remote employees? I wonder how many entrepreneurs, podcasters, & bloggers that will make massive change in the world who’s ideas are BORN from this season? How will this season CONTRIBUTE to HUMANITY overall, as we have realized how much we once took for granted? Could this create a culture where we SEE the need to support small business’?  COULD this create a KINDER, more ACCEPTING CULTURE that wants to DO BETTER for ALL? I don’t mean to make light of REAL issues going on, but there is STILL GOOD, that’s undeniable. 🙏🏻 So I want to be BOTH, AWARE & HOPEFUL 🙏🏻 So girl, you learning new COPING MECHANISMS to navigating this season that are going to serve you later in life for FUTURE curveballs?  Maybe you’ve built the important muscle of resilience & learned to SHOW UP each day even when you’re scared or anxious? 🙏🏻 Maybe you actually needed to get SO STRESSED OUT— that you finally called your shot & changed career paths or started that dream on your heart 🙏🏻 I KNOW THE KIND OF life I want. It’s one full of borderline pee myself BELLY LAUGHS, & showing up with my whole heart while I’m here & doing my part to CONTRIBUTE rather than CRITICIZE. 🙏🏻 Remember girl, it’s hard to BE what you can’t SEE, so let’s be BOTH. Taking responsibility for how we want to show up as we navigate the hard while finding the joy each day 🙏🏻 Double tap if you‘re w/ME🙏🏻 Also, let me know if a podcast on this topic would be helpful in a comment below 👇🏻 #livelifeonpurpose #shegoescollective #enneagram7
  • ‘Ugh 😩 WE HAVE NO IDEA WHEN WE ARE GETTING MARRIED, & 😳 WHEN is this GLOBAL PANDEMIC going to be OVER?!⠀ ⠀ & I know we don’t Want kids right now but we are almost 31 & 32 and every year my OVARIES get older too I HATE THAT!🤣⠀ ⠀ I JUST WANT to have fun in this season, but also GROW the company & contribute to the WORLD right now cuz I wanna show up & help people 😩 it’s A LOT” 😭⠀ ⠀ I said crying into my coffee to Seena….⠀ YESTERDAY morning. 🙏🏻⠀ ⠀ I share this with you as someone who teaches mindset tips to THOUSANDS of women each week w/ my podcast “EmpowerHER” & personal growth community “The Collective”…. ⠀ ⠀ Because it’s REAL & I am HUMAN🙏🏻⠀ ⠀ You too?⠀ Well welcome club, there’s like 7 billion us right? 🤣⠀ ⠀ But truly, those thoughts RARELY stay for more than even an hour for me anymore. 🤷🏼‍♀️⠀ ⠀ What I’ve learned is to FEEL IT, then identify if the questions I’m asking are SERVING me or NOT. ⠀ ⠀ CRAPPY questions = CRAPPY ANSWERS right?! ⠀ ⠀ So the questions, ⠀ ⠀ “WILL THIS PANDEMIC EVER END?!”⠀ “ARE WE EVER GOING TO GET MARRIED?” ⠀ ⠀ “IS spending more years FOCUSING ON YOUR CAREER & how you want to CONTRIBUTE before even thinking about kids a smart idea at this age?"⠀ ⠀ “WHY ARE THERE SO FEW EXAMPLES OF FEMALE ENTREPRENEURS, w/ SOLID MARRIAGES & KIDS making the type of impact I want to make?” ⠀ ⠀ THOSE QUESTIONS SUCK, so do their answers 🤪⠀ ⠀ A BETTER QUESTION,⠀ “WHAT DO YOU KNOW FOR CERTAIN?⠀ ⠀ & here’s what I know…. ⠀ ⠀ I know for CERTAIN, that you’re not given a vision for our life that is not OURS to have, but you are ALSO gifted the GRIT, RESILIENCE & resourcefulness to figure out ANY HOW for your VISION.🙏🏻⠀ ⠀ I also know for CERTAIN building the MINDSET & RELATIONSHIPS now that will equip you to handle whatever comes your way in the future matters TREMENDOUSLY🙏🏻⠀ ⠀ Plus, we always have the choice to waste PRECIOUS time & ENERGY WORRYING about things out of our CONTROL; ⠀ ⠀ Or to embrace the RIDE, knowing things don’t go the way we planned often end up EVEN BETTER right?🥰⠀ ⠀ Life is rigged in YOUR favor.⠀ & yes girl...you can handle this season too😘⠀ ⠀ We’ve got this😘Double tap or comment below if you’re w/me❤️⠀ ⠀ #shegoescollective
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    ‘Ugh 😩 WE HAVE NO IDEA WHEN WE ARE GETTING MARRIED, & 😳 WHEN is this GLOBAL PANDEMIC going to be OVER?!⠀ ⠀ & I know we don’t Want kids right now but we are almost 31 & 32 and every year my OVARIES get older too I HATE THAT!🤣⠀ ⠀ I JUST WANT to have fun in this season, but also GROW the company & contribute to the WORLD right now cuz I wanna show up & help people 😩 it’s A LOT” 😭⠀ ⠀ I said crying into my coffee to Seena….⠀ YESTERDAY morning. 🙏🏻⠀ ⠀ I share this with you as someone who teaches mindset tips to THOUSANDS of women each week w/ my podcast “EmpowerHER” & personal growth community “The Collective”…. ⠀ ⠀ Because it’s REAL & I am HUMAN🙏🏻⠀ ⠀ You too?⠀ Well welcome club, there’s like 7 billion us right? 🤣⠀ ⠀ But truly, those thoughts RARELY stay for more than even an hour for me anymore. 🤷🏼‍♀️⠀ ⠀ What I’ve learned is to FEEL IT, then identify if the questions I’m asking are SERVING me or NOT. ⠀ ⠀ CRAPPY questions = CRAPPY ANSWERS right?! ⠀ ⠀ So the questions, ⠀ ⠀ “WILL THIS PANDEMIC EVER END?!”⠀ “ARE WE EVER GOING TO GET MARRIED?” ⠀ ⠀ “IS spending more years FOCUSING ON YOUR CAREER & how you want to CONTRIBUTE before even thinking about kids a smart idea at this age?"⠀ ⠀ “WHY ARE THERE SO FEW EXAMPLES OF FEMALE ENTREPRENEURS, w/ SOLID MARRIAGES & KIDS making the type of impact I want to make?” ⠀ ⠀ THOSE QUESTIONS SUCK, so do their answers 🤪⠀ ⠀ A BETTER QUESTION,⠀ “WHAT DO YOU KNOW FOR CERTAIN?⠀ ⠀ & here’s what I know…. ⠀ ⠀ I know for CERTAIN, that you’re not given a vision for our life that is not OURS to have, but you are ALSO gifted the GRIT, RESILIENCE & resourcefulness to figure out ANY HOW for your VISION.🙏🏻⠀ ⠀ I also know for CERTAIN building the MINDSET & RELATIONSHIPS now that will equip you to handle whatever comes your way in the future matters TREMENDOUSLY🙏🏻⠀ ⠀ Plus, we always have the choice to waste PRECIOUS time & ENERGY WORRYING about things out of our CONTROL; ⠀ ⠀ Or to embrace the RIDE, knowing things don’t go the way we planned often end up EVEN BETTER right?🥰⠀ ⠀ Life is rigged in YOUR favor.⠀ & yes girl...you can handle this season too😘⠀ ⠀ We’ve got this😘Double tap or comment below if you’re w/me❤️⠀ ⠀ #shegoescollective
  • IT’S NOT STUPID if you are SCARED.⠀ & ITS NOT DUMB if you are worried what people think of you. ⠀ ⠀ IT’S also NOT CRAZY if you FEEL LIKE YOU ARE GOING TO PEE your pants out of PURE NERVES. 😳⠀ ⠀ BUT regardless we DO always have a CHOICE don’t we?⠀ ⠀ We can CHOOSE to FEEL our EMOTIONS cuz we’re HUMANS not ROBOTS but not let OURSELVES get RUN DOWN BY THEM RIGHT?⠀ ⠀ Cuz GIRL like I remind myself all the time....⠀ ⠀ The first time you do something is always THE HARDEST & MOST NERVE WRACKING because you haven’t ever DONE IT BEFORE RIGHT?⠀ ⠀ Shouldn’t you EXPECT to feel UNFAMILAR ANXIOUS FEELINGS when you’re doing something OUTSIDE YOUR COMFORT ZONE or navigating a new NORMAL like we all are right now? ⠀ ⠀ I MEAN WHY DO WE LET OURSELVES FAIL & FACE PLANT AS KIDS....⠀ ⠀ But then become ADULTS & EXPECT we are going to be CRUSHING it all the time or that EVERYTHING will go SEAMLESSLY when we have legit NEVER DONE IT or navigated life like it is right now BEFORE? 🤷🏼‍♀️⠀ ⠀ It’s kind of BS & setting us up for feeling pretty shitty🤔 ⠀ & honestly, I’m not about that for YOU or for ME.⠀ ⠀ SO INSTEAD I SAY why not FEEL THE FEELS FIRST WITHOUT JUDGING yourself; your feeling are REAL girl & totally valid no matter what they are?⠀ ⠀ But then REMIND yourself when starting something NEW….⠀ ⠀ You just don’t have CONFIDENCE from PAST experience that you have what it takes to be successful In this realm....YET.⠀ ⠀ You don’t have that PROOF that you can look back on & say, “see it works out”....YET.⠀ ⠀ You don’t have the TOOLS in your toolbox to prove that YES you can navigate through this because you have done it already.....YET. ⠀ ⠀ But let’s be real, an ambitious big DREAMER like you?⠀ ⠀ You’re committed to GROWTH & a life of constantly evolving for the long haul anyway aren’t you?⠀ ⠀ & girl you already know....⠀ ⠀ EASY robs YOU of PROUD. ⠀ It will all be worth it. 🙏🏻⠀ ⠀ Future you is counting on you.⠀ & she is SO 👏🏻 DAMN 👏🏻 PROUD of how you’re navigating this now. ⠀ ⠀ You’ve got this.You with me? ⠀ ⠀ Double tap or tag a GF below who you are proud of & think might vibe with this message too 💕 ⠀ ⠀ #shegoescollective #atxlife #austin
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    IT’S NOT STUPID if you are SCARED.⠀ & ITS NOT DUMB if you are worried what people think of you. ⠀ ⠀ IT’S also NOT CRAZY if you FEEL LIKE YOU ARE GOING TO PEE your pants out of PURE NERVES. 😳⠀ ⠀ BUT regardless we DO always have a CHOICE don’t we?⠀ ⠀ We can CHOOSE to FEEL our EMOTIONS cuz we’re HUMANS not ROBOTS but not let OURSELVES get RUN DOWN BY THEM RIGHT?⠀ ⠀ Cuz GIRL like I remind myself all the time....⠀ ⠀ The first time you do something is always THE HARDEST & MOST NERVE WRACKING because you haven’t ever DONE IT BEFORE RIGHT?⠀ ⠀ Shouldn’t you EXPECT to feel UNFAMILAR ANXIOUS FEELINGS when you’re doing something OUTSIDE YOUR COMFORT ZONE or navigating a new NORMAL like we all are right now? ⠀ ⠀ I MEAN WHY DO WE LET OURSELVES FAIL & FACE PLANT AS KIDS....⠀ ⠀ But then become ADULTS & EXPECT we are going to be CRUSHING it all the time or that EVERYTHING will go SEAMLESSLY when we have legit NEVER DONE IT or navigated life like it is right now BEFORE? 🤷🏼‍♀️⠀ ⠀ It’s kind of BS & setting us up for feeling pretty shitty🤔 ⠀ & honestly, I’m not about that for YOU or for ME.⠀ ⠀ SO INSTEAD I SAY why not FEEL THE FEELS FIRST WITHOUT JUDGING yourself; your feeling are REAL girl & totally valid no matter what they are?⠀ ⠀ But then REMIND yourself when starting something NEW….⠀ ⠀ You just don’t have CONFIDENCE from PAST experience that you have what it takes to be successful In this realm....YET.⠀ ⠀ You don’t have that PROOF that you can look back on & say, “see it works out”....YET.⠀ ⠀ You don’t have the TOOLS in your toolbox to prove that YES you can navigate through this because you have done it already.....YET. ⠀ ⠀ But let’s be real, an ambitious big DREAMER like you?⠀ ⠀ You’re committed to GROWTH & a life of constantly evolving for the long haul anyway aren’t you?⠀ ⠀ & girl you already know....⠀ ⠀ EASY robs YOU of PROUD. ⠀ It will all be worth it. 🙏🏻⠀ ⠀ Future you is counting on you.⠀ & she is SO 👏🏻 DAMN 👏🏻 PROUD of how you’re navigating this now. ⠀ ⠀ You’ve got this.You with me? ⠀ ⠀ Double tap or tag a GF below who you are proud of & think might vibe with this message too 💕 ⠀ ⠀ #shegoescollective #atxlife #austin
  • Do you ever think of what your 20 year old self would think of you now? ⠀ ⠀ Cuz I know mine would be thinking..... ⠀ ⠀ “Wait....you’re almost 31 and you aren’t even married yet? ⠀ ⠀ You didn’t buy a house? 😱⠀ ⠀ Your only child is covered in FUR? 🐶⠀ ⠀ You are some type of “online entrepreneur” (a job that didn’t even EXIST 10 years ago)? 🤣⠀ ⠀ You now live in TEXAS!? WTF?!🤣⠀ ⠀ You share your life on social media and have a top 40 (as of this morning 😭) rated podcast?!⠀ ⠀ I think my 20 year old self would think “What the ACTUAL F” 🤣⠀ ⠀ Would yours think that about your life and where you are now too?⠀ ⠀ But honestly... ⠀ ⠀ What I keep learning that helps me feel bold enough to make moves or decisions that some people might not understand....⠀ ⠀ Is the goal isn’t for me to get to the end of the life after our TBD amount of day’s, thinking “phew I made it through unscathed” or “thank GOD I followed this arbitrary path of go to school, get married, find your person, buy your house, have 2.2 kids”.⠀ ⠀ That path is right for SOME.⠀ But it wasn’t right for me 🙏🏻⠀ ⠀ The goal for me here...is to really soak up my one shot here. ⠀ ⠀ & the cool thing that happens when you make decisions that feel right to you...⠀ ⠀ Is you really learn ti TRUST your intuition, to love your path, your lifestyle, & your beliefs, so much so that you don’t feel defensive if people don’t understand or feel the need to ever prove another’s “wrong”, you feel me? 😉⠀ So in case you need the reminder as we all do from time to time...⠀ ⠀ You don’t get a trophy 🏆 for going through life milestones the fastest 🤣⠀ ⠀ You are not “late” or “behind”....⠀ You are not “too young” or “too old” to do that thing you want to do. ⠀ ⠀ You are exactly where you need to be 🙏🏻⠀ ⠀ & from my lens.... if you’re doing the best you can to each day during the craziness we are living in.... I’d say you’re killing it boo😘⠀ ⠀ Double tap if you’re with me & will take a second today feel proud of the woman you’re becoming along the way 🙏🏻❤️⠀ ⠀ I wanted to say “I love y’all” but it’s not natural yet 🤣⠀ ⠀ So for now I’ll just say... I love you all ❤️🤣⠀ ⠀ #ATXLIFE #shegoescollective #livelifeonpurpose #austin
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    Do you ever think of what your 20 year old self would think of you now? ⠀ ⠀ Cuz I know mine would be thinking..... ⠀ ⠀ “Wait....you’re almost 31 and you aren’t even married yet? ⠀ ⠀ You didn’t buy a house? 😱⠀ ⠀ Your only child is covered in FUR? 🐶⠀ ⠀ You are some type of “online entrepreneur” (a job that didn’t even EXIST 10 years ago)? 🤣⠀ ⠀ You now live in TEXAS!? WTF?!🤣⠀ ⠀ You share your life on social media and have a top 40 (as of this morning 😭) rated podcast?!⠀ ⠀ I think my 20 year old self would think “What the ACTUAL F” 🤣⠀ ⠀ Would yours think that about your life and where you are now too?⠀ ⠀ But honestly... ⠀ ⠀ What I keep learning that helps me feel bold enough to make moves or decisions that some people might not understand....⠀ ⠀ Is the goal isn’t for me to get to the end of the life after our TBD amount of day’s, thinking “phew I made it through unscathed” or “thank GOD I followed this arbitrary path of go to school, get married, find your person, buy your house, have 2.2 kids”.⠀ ⠀ That path is right for SOME.⠀ But it wasn’t right for me 🙏🏻⠀ ⠀ The goal for me here...is to really soak up my one shot here. ⠀ ⠀ & the cool thing that happens when you make decisions that feel right to you...⠀ ⠀ Is you really learn ti TRUST your intuition, to love your path, your lifestyle, & your beliefs, so much so that you don’t feel defensive if people don’t understand or feel the need to ever prove another’s “wrong”, you feel me? 😉⠀ So in case you need the reminder as we all do from time to time...⠀ ⠀ You don’t get a trophy 🏆 for going through life milestones the fastest 🤣⠀ ⠀ You are not “late” or “behind”....⠀ You are not “too young” or “too old” to do that thing you want to do. ⠀ ⠀ You are exactly where you need to be 🙏🏻⠀ ⠀ & from my lens.... if you’re doing the best you can to each day during the craziness we are living in.... I’d say you’re killing it boo😘⠀ ⠀ Double tap if you’re with me & will take a second today feel proud of the woman you’re becoming along the way 🙏🏻❤️⠀ ⠀ I wanted to say “I love y’all” but it’s not natural yet 🤣⠀ ⠀ So for now I’ll just say... I love you all ❤️🤣⠀ ⠀ #ATXLIFE #shegoescollective #livelifeonpurpose #austin
  • To the girl that feels a little 😩 this is for you 🙏🏻⠀ ⠀ You might be looking at your goals & literally thinking.... ⠀ ⠀ “AM I EVEN CAPABLE OF THIS?!!”⠀ “IS THIS SO DUMB THAT I AM EVEN TRYING?” ⠀ ⠀ Or you might be going for it but you are feeling like you are getting hit with massive CURVEBALLS & you just CAN’T GET AHEAD.....⠀ ⠀ Or Maybe you are straight up just asking yourself— ⠀ ⠀ “IS THIS WORTH EVEN WORTH TRYING because Im NEVER going to be as good as HER?” 😩⠀ ⠀ If so, I hear you, I’ve been there too 🙏🏻⠀ ⠀ So FIRST— PLEASE KNOW while people don’t talk about often, it’s SO NORMAL, EVERYBODY feels that way from time to time & GROWTH DOESNT ALWAYS FEEL like rainbows 🌈 butterflies 🦋 and happy little unicorns right?🙏🏻⠀ ⠀ BUT let me ask you— IS YOUR EXISTING THOUGHT PATTERN WORKING FOR YOU? ⠀ ⠀ ALWAYS LOOKING FOR THE REASONS WHY YOU SUCK?! 🧐 ⠀ ⠀ ALWAYS LOOKING FOR THE BAD NEWS, ASSUMING YOU ARE GOING TO GET DEALT A CURVEBALL?! 😩⠀ ⠀ ALWAYS LOOKING AT the space between where you are now and HOW FAR YOU want TO GO AND LABELING IT OVERWHELMING OR IMPOSSIBLE? 😭⠀ ⠀ ALWAYS THINKING SOMEONE ELSE IS JUST BETTER THAN YOU?😳⠀ ⠀ Cuz girl, If you keep THINKING THESE THOUGHTS repeating this pattern, what will happen? ⠀ ⠀ I don’t think it’s going to get you where you wanna do, and GIRL if I can be a reminder of ANYTHING to you, it’s that you DESERVE a life you’re obsessed with ❤️🙏🏻⠀ ⠀ Plus...I think for a woman like you, with such a huge heart & SO much damn potential, the question.....⠀ ⠀ “WHAT IF I WOULD HAVE GONE FOR IT & STAYED AFTER IT?” ⠀ ⠀ Would haunt you more than the potential embarrassment or slight let down that could come from STUMBLING along the way, don’t you think? ⠀ ⠀ So girl... dust yourself off, remind yourself this season MATTER.⠀ This is character & GRIT building season baby.⠀ ⠀ You’re built for this.⠀ Keep going k?❤️⠀ ⠀ & if you need me all up in your ear, episode #180 released today is 9 minutes all about getting GRITTY. 💃🏻⠀ ⠀ Comment below if you’re bringing your A GAME today 🙌🏻 or tag a GF who you think might need this reminder too 🙏🏻⠀ Oh & drink that water girl hehe 😉⠀ ⠀ #shegoescollective #EASYrobsyouofPROUD #enneagram7
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    To the girl that feels a little 😩 this is for you 🙏🏻⠀ ⠀ You might be looking at your goals & literally thinking.... ⠀ ⠀ “AM I EVEN CAPABLE OF THIS?!!”⠀ “IS THIS SO DUMB THAT I AM EVEN TRYING?” ⠀ ⠀ Or you might be going for it but you are feeling like you are getting hit with massive CURVEBALLS & you just CAN’T GET AHEAD.....⠀ ⠀ Or Maybe you are straight up just asking yourself— ⠀ ⠀ “IS THIS WORTH EVEN WORTH TRYING because Im NEVER going to be as good as HER?” 😩⠀ ⠀ If so, I hear you, I’ve been there too 🙏🏻⠀ ⠀ So FIRST— PLEASE KNOW while people don’t talk about often, it’s SO NORMAL, EVERYBODY feels that way from time to time & GROWTH DOESNT ALWAYS FEEL like rainbows 🌈 butterflies 🦋 and happy little unicorns right?🙏🏻⠀ ⠀ BUT let me ask you— IS YOUR EXISTING THOUGHT PATTERN WORKING FOR YOU? ⠀ ⠀ ALWAYS LOOKING FOR THE REASONS WHY YOU SUCK?! 🧐 ⠀ ⠀ ALWAYS LOOKING FOR THE BAD NEWS, ASSUMING YOU ARE GOING TO GET DEALT A CURVEBALL?! 😩⠀ ⠀ ALWAYS LOOKING AT the space between where you are now and HOW FAR YOU want TO GO AND LABELING IT OVERWHELMING OR IMPOSSIBLE? 😭⠀ ⠀ ALWAYS THINKING SOMEONE ELSE IS JUST BETTER THAN YOU?😳⠀ ⠀ Cuz girl, If you keep THINKING THESE THOUGHTS repeating this pattern, what will happen? ⠀ ⠀ I don’t think it’s going to get you where you wanna do, and GIRL if I can be a reminder of ANYTHING to you, it’s that you DESERVE a life you’re obsessed with ❤️🙏🏻⠀ ⠀ Plus...I think for a woman like you, with such a huge heart & SO much damn potential, the question.....⠀ ⠀ “WHAT IF I WOULD HAVE GONE FOR IT & STAYED AFTER IT?” ⠀ ⠀ Would haunt you more than the potential embarrassment or slight let down that could come from STUMBLING along the way, don’t you think? ⠀ ⠀ So girl... dust yourself off, remind yourself this season MATTER.⠀ This is character & GRIT building season baby.⠀ ⠀ You’re built for this.⠀ Keep going k?❤️⠀ ⠀ & if you need me all up in your ear, episode #180 released today is 9 minutes all about getting GRITTY. 💃🏻⠀ ⠀ Comment below if you’re bringing your A GAME today 🙌🏻 or tag a GF who you think might need this reminder too 🙏🏻⠀ Oh & drink that water girl hehe 😉⠀ ⠀ #shegoescollective #EASYrobsyouofPROUD #enneagram7
  • & just like, he did it 😭🙏🏻⠀ ⠀ Officially the best way to kick off our 2nd weekend here?⠀ ⠀ A Spicy 🌶 Marg & a weekend of shenanigans celebrating a really epic job offer for my favorite human ever 😭⠀ ⠀ A couple hours ago @seena.ghetmiri officially accepted a position at an incredibly well respected dental office here in Austin🙏🏻⠀ ⠀ Basically his dream situation, to be working in this type of a clinic & my dream situation knowing how EXCITED he is for his career, one that he worked so hard for🙏🏻⠀ ⠀ (& the kicker his dental license won’t be processed few more weeks which means not only do I get an adventure partner but also a really attractive unpaid intern working for me for awhile🙌🏻🤣 #gimmealltheHRViolations ) ⠀ ⠀ & In case you (reading this) need the reminder.... ⠀ ⠀ I say GO for that thing on your heart. 🙏🏻⠀ ⠀ Maybe it won’t workout the way you planned...⠀ But what if it’s even BETTER 😉⠀ ⠀ & Seena, holy crap I am SO 👏🏻DAMN proud of you 🙏🏻 ⠀ And so grateful to do life with such a ambitious go getter ❤️⠀ ⠀ #ATXlife #DDS #Austin
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    & just like, he did it 😭🙏🏻⠀ ⠀ Officially the best way to kick off our 2nd weekend here?⠀ ⠀ A Spicy 🌶 Marg & a weekend of shenanigans celebrating a really epic job offer for my favorite human ever 😭⠀ ⠀ A couple hours ago @seena.ghetmiri officially accepted a position at an incredibly well respected dental office here in Austin🙏🏻⠀ ⠀ Basically his dream situation, to be working in this type of a clinic & my dream situation knowing how EXCITED he is for his career, one that he worked so hard for🙏🏻⠀ ⠀ (& the kicker his dental license won’t be processed few more weeks which means not only do I get an adventure partner but also a really attractive unpaid intern working for me for awhile🙌🏻🤣 #gimmealltheHRViolations ) ⠀ ⠀ & In case you (reading this) need the reminder.... ⠀ ⠀ I say GO for that thing on your heart. 🙏🏻⠀ ⠀ Maybe it won’t workout the way you planned...⠀ But what if it’s even BETTER 😉⠀ ⠀ & Seena, holy crap I am SO 👏🏻DAMN proud of you 🙏🏻 ⠀ And so grateful to do life with such a ambitious go getter ❤️⠀ ⠀ #ATXlife #DDS #Austin
  • “SHE’S JUST BETTER at this than ME, that’s WHY”. 🤔 ⠀ ⠀ Okay, I HEAR you. 🙏🏻⠀ ⠀ & OF COURSE your opinion is VALID because that is how you FEEL, but I am going to call BS. 🤷🏼‍♀️⠀ ⠀ I call BS on MYSELF all the time if the story is not serving me, so I’ll do it to you too, cuz I think of us like girlfriends k?💕 ⠀ ⠀ So maybe the DATA would say, she’s SEEING MORE results right now than YOU but WHY does that mean she’s “BETTER”? 🤔⠀ ⠀ Do you REALLY know the amount of consistent WORK over TIME she’s done to get where she’s at? ⠀ ⠀ Do you know how many times she’s wanted to throw in the towel & had to instead get back up every time she’s FAILED along the way?🤷🏼‍♀️⠀ ⠀ Are you walking in on her CHAPTER 20 & judging that against your very BEGINNING stages?⠀ ⠀ & are you comparing YOUR behind the SCENES, messy bun, no bra on post-ugly cry moment 😭 to HER carefully curated, who knows how many pics she took CONTENT on social media thinking that she’s got it “ALL TOGETHER”? ⠀ ⠀ Are you creating a BS story that STRAIGHT out DA WOMB she was born with skill set that you can’t AQUIRE if you WANT TO? ⠀ ⠀ & HONESTLY, Are you so damn focused on HER that you aren’t getting to work on you and YOUR goals?⠀ ⠀ I KNOW that sounds harsh but sometimes we need a GUT CHECK opportunity to RE-FRAME RIGHT?🙏🏻⠀ ⠀ I really to my CORE believe there is room for ALL of us to BE successful however we DEFINE SUCCESS & it won’t look the SAME for anyone. 👯‍♀️⠀ ⠀ Plus think about it; WHO do you ADMIRE in your life? ⠀ ⠀ I doubt it’s a woman that’s WRITING off another womans success as “LUCKY”. ⠀ ⠀ I doubt its a woman who’s SITTING & not taking action just bitching🤪⠀ ⠀ It’s probably a woman who LIFTS others UP & is HONEST about the journey🙏🏻, wanting time show other people they can do it too ❤️⠀ ⠀ If you have a GF or babe on social media you LOVE that inspires you to STEP up your GAME cuz she’s crushing it...⠀ ⠀ Tag her below & tell her she inspires you 🙏🏻⠀ ⠀ & remember girl, you wouldnt be GIFTED this vision for your life, if you weren’t also gifted the ability to FIGURE it out, you’ve got this.⠀ ⠀ Keep going k?⠀ ⠀ #shegoescollective #livelifeonpurpose #atxlife #atxlifestyle
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    “SHE’S JUST BETTER at this than ME, that’s WHY”. 🤔 ⠀ ⠀ Okay, I HEAR you. 🙏🏻⠀ ⠀ & OF COURSE your opinion is VALID because that is how you FEEL, but I am going to call BS. 🤷🏼‍♀️⠀ ⠀ I call BS on MYSELF all the time if the story is not serving me, so I’ll do it to you too, cuz I think of us like girlfriends k?💕 ⠀ ⠀ So maybe the DATA would say, she’s SEEING MORE results right now than YOU but WHY does that mean she’s “BETTER”? 🤔⠀ ⠀ Do you REALLY know the amount of consistent WORK over TIME she’s done to get where she’s at? ⠀ ⠀ Do you know how many times she’s wanted to throw in the towel & had to instead get back up every time she’s FAILED along the way?🤷🏼‍♀️⠀ ⠀ Are you walking in on her CHAPTER 20 & judging that against your very BEGINNING stages?⠀ ⠀ & are you comparing YOUR behind the SCENES, messy bun, no bra on post-ugly cry moment 😭 to HER carefully curated, who knows how many pics she took CONTENT on social media thinking that she’s got it “ALL TOGETHER”? ⠀ ⠀ Are you creating a BS story that STRAIGHT out DA WOMB she was born with skill set that you can’t AQUIRE if you WANT TO? ⠀ ⠀ & HONESTLY, Are you so damn focused on HER that you aren’t getting to work on you and YOUR goals?⠀ ⠀ I KNOW that sounds harsh but sometimes we need a GUT CHECK opportunity to RE-FRAME RIGHT?🙏🏻⠀ ⠀ I really to my CORE believe there is room for ALL of us to BE successful however we DEFINE SUCCESS & it won’t look the SAME for anyone. 👯‍♀️⠀ ⠀ Plus think about it; WHO do you ADMIRE in your life? ⠀ ⠀ I doubt it’s a woman that’s WRITING off another womans success as “LUCKY”. ⠀ ⠀ I doubt its a woman who’s SITTING & not taking action just bitching🤪⠀ ⠀ It’s probably a woman who LIFTS others UP & is HONEST about the journey🙏🏻, wanting time show other people they can do it too ❤️⠀ ⠀ If you have a GF or babe on social media you LOVE that inspires you to STEP up your GAME cuz she’s crushing it...⠀ ⠀ Tag her below & tell her she inspires you 🙏🏻⠀ ⠀ & remember girl, you wouldnt be GIFTED this vision for your life, if you weren’t also gifted the ability to FIGURE it out, you’ve got this.⠀ ⠀ Keep going k?⠀ ⠀ #shegoescollective #livelifeonpurpose #atxlife #atxlifestyle
  • It wasn’t very pretty. 😳⠀ ⠀ I think sometimes people want a pretty answer when they tell me they feel “STUCK“ & want to get out of it. ⠀ ⠀ But really, I started LEARNING how to get myself un-stuck through a lot ugly crying while FEELING stuck 🙏🏻⠀ ⠀ Back in 2014 when I was in the corporate world, before I started a side biz, & started getting a lot more intentional in my life,I word vomited all over Seena….⠀ ⠀ “UGH, I “should” be happy right?! ⠀ I have amazing friends, love where I live & have the career trajectory I always wanted. ⠀ ⠀ WHY AM I NOT FULFILLED by this path?! ⠀ Am I LITERALLY a selfish person to not be happy with this life that I have?”! ⠀ ⠀ UGHHHH 😩 HELP ME?!” ⠀ ⠀ Maybe you have been there? ⠀ Or maybe you can relate to those feelings right now where you just feel STUCK & CONFUSED AF. 🙏🏻⠀ ⠀ If so, I hear you.⠀ ⠀ BUT, I also see this EXACT moment as an opportunity to help you build CONFIDENCE in your own intuition & might end up being one of the greatest blessings of your life. 🙏🏻❤️⠀ ⠀ SO WHAT DID I DO TO START TO get OUT of this STUCK feeling? ⠀ ⠀ I looked at my calendar and realized I had not done something for the FIRST time in a LONG time. 😱⠀ ⠀ So now... I’m ALWAYS down TRY THINGS OUT & DETACH from the outcome of it having to be PERFECT or even “FOREVER”. ⠀ ⠀ Cuz girlfriend,⠀ ⠀ If you are hanging out with people who think the same as you, doing pretty much the same thing EVERY WEEKEND you’re not being EXPOSED to anything new right🤷🏼‍♀️⠀ ⠀ So why not TALK TO more STRANGERS?🤣⠀ CONSUME different CONTENT especially from people who don’t look or think like you 🙏🏻⠀ ⠀ Say yes to the adventure or meet up, or join an online community (hey I know a girl that has one) 😉. ⠀ ⠀ Start the blog, the podcast, the Etsy shop, the hobby JUST for the freaking HELL OF IT. ⠀ ⠀ You either LOVE IT, or you LEARN you don’t. ⠀ BOTH are wins right?! ⠀ ⠀ Cuz girl, you DESERVE to live a life you’re obsessed with. ⠀ ⠀ Oh & if your gut is telling you to move to a city, I say you LISTEN. Your gut is always right 😉🙏🏻⠀ ⠀ Comment below if you’re w/ me & if you’re trying something new out I wanna hear👇🏻 ⠀ ⠀ #shegoescollective #livelifeonpurpose #atxlife
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    It wasn’t very pretty. 😳⠀ ⠀ I think sometimes people want a pretty answer when they tell me they feel “STUCK“ & want to get out of it. ⠀ ⠀ But really, I started LEARNING how to get myself un-stuck through a lot ugly crying while FEELING stuck 🙏🏻⠀ ⠀ Back in 2014 when I was in the corporate world, before I started a side biz, & started getting a lot more intentional in my life,I word vomited all over Seena….⠀ ⠀ “UGH, I “should” be happy right?! ⠀ I have amazing friends, love where I live & have the career trajectory I always wanted. ⠀ ⠀ WHY AM I NOT FULFILLED by this path?! ⠀ Am I LITERALLY a selfish person to not be happy with this life that I have?”! ⠀ ⠀ UGHHHH 😩 HELP ME?!” ⠀ ⠀ Maybe you have been there? ⠀ Or maybe you can relate to those feelings right now where you just feel STUCK & CONFUSED AF. 🙏🏻⠀ ⠀ If so, I hear you.⠀ ⠀ BUT, I also see this EXACT moment as an opportunity to help you build CONFIDENCE in your own intuition & might end up being one of the greatest blessings of your life. 🙏🏻❤️⠀ ⠀ SO WHAT DID I DO TO START TO get OUT of this STUCK feeling? ⠀ ⠀ I looked at my calendar and realized I had not done something for the FIRST time in a LONG time. 😱⠀ ⠀ So now... I’m ALWAYS down TRY THINGS OUT & DETACH from the outcome of it having to be PERFECT or even “FOREVER”. ⠀ ⠀ Cuz girlfriend,⠀ ⠀ If you are hanging out with people who think the same as you, doing pretty much the same thing EVERY WEEKEND you’re not being EXPOSED to anything new right🤷🏼‍♀️⠀ ⠀ So why not TALK TO more STRANGERS?🤣⠀ CONSUME different CONTENT especially from people who don’t look or think like you 🙏🏻⠀ ⠀ Say yes to the adventure or meet up, or join an online community (hey I know a girl that has one) 😉. ⠀ ⠀ Start the blog, the podcast, the Etsy shop, the hobby JUST for the freaking HELL OF IT. ⠀ ⠀ You either LOVE IT, or you LEARN you don’t. ⠀ BOTH are wins right?! ⠀ ⠀ Cuz girl, you DESERVE to live a life you’re obsessed with. ⠀ ⠀ Oh & if your gut is telling you to move to a city, I say you LISTEN. Your gut is always right 😉🙏🏻⠀ ⠀ Comment below if you’re w/ me & if you’re trying something new out I wanna hear👇🏻 ⠀ ⠀ #shegoescollective #livelifeonpurpose #atxlife