I'll never forget the moment I found myself doing the laundry for a cute guy I was newly dating. In my mind, I was trying to impress him and prove my value in hopes that he would pursue me. 🤦🏻‍♀️I'm embarrassed to admit it, but it's true. For years I struggled to believe that I was enough just for being me. I would find myself moulding into who I thought "he" would want, whether in a relationship or dating. 👉Have you ever found yourself trying to impress a guy or changing to meet his expectations? Feeling not good enough is a common theme I hear from my women. 💜But here is the TRUTH...you are more than enough just the way you are. Let go of proving your value and worth. Stop trying to be the person you think "he"wants and be you. You are perfect the way you are. And the right person will see it. 
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You are worth of extraordinary loveđź’ž 
This statement resonates true for many of my clients and me. We often know what action is necessary for moving forward, but our heart is stalling, even begging us to wait a bit longer. Sometimes it's hoping that the situation will change or what we know to be true is false. And yet, we have all the evidence we need, but our heart doesn't want to see it. Maybe it's having a difficult conversation with someone you're dating or in a relationship with; perhaps it's noticing red flags or setting a boundary. Trust yourself; you've got this. 
Many of my clients are so focused on doing the work to find "the one" that they forget that falling in love is only the beginning. . Building a healthy, happy relationship needs just as much focus and attention as finding love in the first place. . I believe every relationship, regardless of its length or intensity, is an opportunity for personal growth and healing. . We get to learn how to love ourselves through loving another person. . Love is a verb. 
💜 How do I create a deep connection that continues to grow? 💜How can I trust that he's not going to do what the last one did? 💜How do I choose the right man for me? . These questions I hear A LOT from women. . Or when things "seem" to be going well right now but... we'll see…or What if he does ……? or What happens if….?  . I find that when women have these concerns they are waiting for the other shoe to drop. They are anticipating the worst and are attempting to protect themselves..   . They have a fear -  whether it’s that they’re afraid he’s not trustworthy, that they’ll eventually fall into old self sabotaging habits and ruin things, or they’re so sure there’s something wrong with him that they just haven’t seen yet - and it’s causing them to sabotage their relationships over and over again.  The problem when you are in this cycle of waiting for something to go wrong, you focus on what’s not working or what could go wrong, versus what’s RIGHT and going well in the present. Can you relate? 💜Recognizing these patterns is one of the first steps you'll learn to recognize in the workshop on Sunday I'm co-hosting with Cyndi Olin,  Stop Struggling in Love. 💜Identifying and knowing this, along with the process we will show you, will help you to become aware and train yourself to experience happiness and joy in life and your relationships. We will dive into your thoughts and how they create your reality. We’ll show you how to get to a place where you understand that “peace” does not equal “boring” CLICK THE LINK IN THE BIO NOW TO JOIN US ON SUNDAY 
If you were to change the way you date and engage with men, how would you show up differently? Many women I've coached are unaware of their energy and how they come across to men. . Depending on our previous experiences we can tend to show up guarded, standoffish, or reserved. It's understandable as we want to protect ourselves from getting hurt again. . However, when it comes to attracting what our heart desires that energy is blocking us from being open, receptive and inviting to the new experience in front of us. . In my personal love life, I had to let go of judging every man in front of me. . I had to remove the lense I saw men and rewire my mindset to see that men are genuine and have big hearts. . What are you old experiences and beliefs about men are blocking you? Are you willing to rewire your brain to see the situation differently? 
Have you ever felt that you have done all the 'right things' in life; followed the rules and yet your ideal relationship has not happened... and beginning to wonder if it ever will? . A client was sharing that she feels ripped off from life. That the reward of being a good person, having a steady job, a strong circle of friends and family have not led her to the relationship, she deeply desires. . Without her realizing it, her belief that “life is unfair” limits her opportunity to attract the partnership she wants and blocks her from being open to new possibilities. . Noticing and breaking free from our limiting beliefs even the painful ones is essential to attracting and keeping the relationship we desire and deserve to have. . Uncover what limiting beliefs might be blocking you in your love life. 
The power struggle in dating occurs when we are relucent to give up our power by doing a significant first, such as the first kiss, or communicating the desire to be exclusive or the first I love you, to name a few. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ .⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ The person who takes these steps is, in essence, is leaning in and saying; I want you...please want me too! ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ .⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ There is always the risk of rejection, of not being wanted or desired the same way. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ .⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ In this lies the power struggle within yourself and the object of your desire. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ .⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ How much of yourself do you allow another person to see? How safe do you feel in allowing someone to see you fully? Have you found yourself running away from a potential relationship than risk being hurt by becoming vulnerable? ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ .⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ By strengthening your Mental Fitness for Love, you will rewire your brain to trust yourself and reduce the unnecessary anxiety of being vulnerable. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ .⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ Reach out if you are curious to know more. 
It’s time to celebrate the woman you are. Remember your value is not based on someone else’s opinion.