• Scripting what you’ll say is often about preventing embarrassment, conflict, or rejection. It can...
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    Scripting what you’ll say is often about preventing embarrassment, conflict, or rejection. It can...
  • Automatic apologies often come from environments where staying liked = staying safe. Over time,...
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    Automatic apologies often come from environments where staying liked = staying safe. Over time,...
  • A lot of people think adapting in social settings means you’re fake, but in reality it means...
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    A lot of people think adapting in social settings means you’re fake, but in reality it means you’re...
  • It’s not that you care “too much” about what others think. It’s that your nervous system learned...
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    It’s not that you care “too much” about what others think. It’s that your nervous system learned to...
  • If rest makes you feel guilty, lazy, or uncomfortable, it’s usually not a mindset issue. It’s...
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    If rest makes you feel guilty, lazy, or uncomfortable, it’s usually not a mindset issue. It’s...
  • Sometimes anger isn’t anger. It’s overwhelm in motion. When there’s too much input — too many...
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    Sometimes anger isn’t anger. It’s overwhelm in motion. When there’s too much input — too many...
  • If you say yes automatically and regret it later, that isn’t necessarily a “people-pleasing...
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    If you say yes automatically and regret it later, that isn’t necessarily a “people-pleasing...
  • If someone asks “how are you?” You may find you default to “I’m good” or something similar. You...
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    If someone asks “how are you?” You may find you default to “I’m good” or something similar. You...
  • Asking for help isn’t just a mindset shift. For a lot of people, it’s a nervous system event. If...
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    Asking for help isn’t just a mindset shift. For a lot of people, it’s a nervous system event. If...