It is a pleasure and an honour to be invited into people’s relational lives. It is a GIFT to be trusted in helping confront and belay my clients’ fears with the express purpose of cultivating clarity, confidence, and courage in my their future by confronting old, limiting, or unhealthy patterns from the past, here in the present. Heart so full. Purpose so aligned. All kinds of gratitude for this moment. Dm me to get started. 🪄LeisseWilcox.com #mentorship #consciousrelationships 
“Wow, you’re so strong. So brave. Such an inspiration.” Do people tell you this a lot? How do you react? And how do you react when the mask of performance is removed? When you are the strong one, it can feel like a double edged sword: I don’t want to be the strong one. I didn’t ask for this. I didn’t have any other option. All I want is to stop holding it together. All I want is to fall apart. I’m just afraid if I let go and let myself fall apart… …I won’t be able to put myself back together. I feel you; I have lived this. Exactly this. We pray for strength when we are in the depths of emotional hell. Those time’s in which it feels like “oh fucking fuck - I’m out of ideas here. How the hell do I do this?” Worse, when you’re the brave one - the one who seems to take all the punches blindfolded with one hand tied behind your back, and still manages to get back up - that bravery BECOMES a part of your identity. So even if you WANT a safe space to fall apart, it becomes very difficult to trust anyone to be that safe space for you. What would it feel like to feel safe enough to fall apart? What would it feel like to trust someone to hold the space you need to let. It. Out, and process what’s on your heart and mind OUT LOUD? What would it feel like to let someone in just enough to bear witness to your authentic emotional experience without any judgment, and guide you through the process of trusting yourself to move forward? What would it feel like to be truly seen and known as your true self, in every relationship, without condition? What would it feel like to let your guard down for a minute and let someone carry you over the threshold of the next chapter in the story of the person you are becoming? Dm me to find out. 🪄LeisseWilcox.com #mentorship 
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…and each one starts with the connection to yourself. ➡️ Where does your relationship to self need more support: Honesty + Trust? Compassion + Forgiveness? Joy + Fun? Love + acceptance? 🪄LeisseWilcox.com #mentorship #breakthroughday 
In 2016 I bought my first guitar, signed up for lessons, booked a gig to play live at a bar within two months of my first lesson “so I’d have a goal.” Three lessons in, I realized how HARD it is to learn to play, cancelled the gig, quit the lessons, and put the guitar in the corner where it would sit, untouched, for years. 2020 hit, and I decided that I’d teach myself to play during the Pandi. I’d invested so intensively in my own growth that although it was just a few years later, I was literally a brand new person. A person who’d healed SO MUCH and found SUCH inner peace, that I felt safe to play the guitar ONLY because it brought me joy - not because I needed …or even wanted…to be perfect at it. Like - I didn’t care if I was good, as long as I was having fun. 🔥”All or nothing” is a covert pattern of perfectionism. And perfectionism is excellent feedback that’s there is some DEEP internal safety stuff to heal. 💔A lot of us develop BEING PERFECT as a coping mechanism to bypass and manage the emotional labour of a traumatic experience in childhood. It’s painful. And it’s 100% possible to learn a new way. A way that makes you feel whole without feeling like you need to perform in order to be loved / not rejected. I can show you how. Dm me. 🪄LeisseWilcox.com #mentorship 
Solstice vibes: shift patience into presence and allow yourself to be here now. 🪄LeisseWilcox.com #consciousrelationships #mentorship