She’s Unstoppable LIVE! lit me up this weekend🌟. Hitting pause on the day to day to get intentional about what I want to create in my business and life, all while being surrounded by other inspiring women living out their dreams is something really special. One of my favorite parts was the opportunity to speak on a panel. As a client of Wendy’s for almost 3 years now, I’ve come a long way. There were many times in the beginning I wondered if things would ever click. It took rearranging my whole life - letting go of jobs, relationships, and housing situations, to create the right circumstances to flourish in my work and fulfill my calling in the world. My final words of wisdom on the panel was to trust whatever has guided you to be at this event, on this path of entrepreneurship. Whatever is inside you telling you not to settle, to dream bigger, to bust through what’s been holding you back...trust that. That’s what’s real. The only failure is not even trying to create the life you really want, or giving up too soon. Keep going. ❤️ Pics of: My coach & I My client & I My accountability buddy & I So fun spending time with all three of these amazing women, and many more. Together we rise 🙌🏻.
Happy Winter Solstice, loves! Throwback to this beachside sunset moment. Honor the dark, embrace the light. May all you desire be illuminated for you to clearly see your path. 🌑✨
Family Christmas was so beautiful this past weekend. Like, straight out of a Hallmark movie. It’s always looked that way, on the surface. Gift exchange. Lots of smiling, laughing, beautiful decorations, yummy food, and Greek traditions. But this time, I fully released the wish for my family to be anything other than who they are. I’ve been working on this for the past few years, and something deeply clicked recently. The more I love and embrace myself - light and shadow sides - the more capacity I have to experience the same with others. The more I express all sides of myself and integrate my truth into my daily actions, the more I embrace others expressing their truth. There’s a new level of acceptance in my heart these days. And it’s bursting my old ways of controlling, fixing, people pleasing, and resisting true intimacy right open. Wishing people were different consumes so much unnecessary energy. Especially because those traits and patterns are usually a reflection of something in ourselves we’ve yet to claim. Letting people love you the way they know how is like a big exhale. Your sacred boundaries intact, there’s a new depth of intimacy that’s waiting for you in your relationships. On the other side of shame is freedom. I’m no longer interested in focusing on what could be different in others. After all, my limited viewpoint is nothing compared to the divine timing of one’s own path unfolding. My heart is open in a way I’ve never felt before, and I simultaneously feel more grounded than ever. Let go of how you think things should be, so you can let in what’s even better than you’d imagined. Show this post some love if you feel me ❤️.
🦋You are the one you’ve been waiting for. For those women who identify as anxious in dating, there’s often a subconscious theme of waiting. Waiting to be chosen. Waiting to be proven worthy. Waiting to feel turned on. Waiting to feel alive. When she meets a man that comes towards her just long enough before leaving again, she feels a hit of attraction that jolts her system. It’s the familiar push/pull, that she mistakenly believes is love. The soulmate connection she swears she’s found, is really just her getting a glimpse of what’s possible when she’s in her power. The magnetism. The radiance. The expansion. The butterflies. The excitement. The anticipation. The craving. The fulfilment. When it’s always outside of her, she believes it’s an external force that brings her alive. Hungry for another taste of her feminine essence, she seeks more men that will show her a reflection of her truth. But what she’s really seeking, is a deeper connection with herself. Still waiting to experience what is hers to first activate, then amplify with the masculine. When she realizes she is the one she’s been waiting for, her world opens up. She effortlessly draws in what she’s been chasing. She commands the energy of a room. She waits for no one. She is at choice. She is free. _____________________ Mark your calendar for 11.28! I’m dropping a juicy Black Friday offer that will support your first steps in awakening the Irresistible Woman within so you attract + sustain secure, thriving love as we head into the holidays. Can’t wait to share it with you! 💋
Imposter syndrome. It’s always lurking in the back of my mind. But not like you may think. Sure, sometimes I fall into the comparison trap. But I uncovered a theme at the retreat with my coach @wendycollierworldwide last week, when she invited @hannah__muse to lead us through a meditation on what we fear the most. For all my life, I’ve had big dreams that get buried in the status quo of daily life, when not given space to bloom. That nagging voice of untapped potential never really goes away. When I took the plunge to receive coaching almost 3 years ago, my life radically changed. I stripped away lots of old beliefs and anchored in the courage and confidence that was always in me, waiting to be revealed. While I am so damn proud of what I’ve created in my life and business as a result of having support from Wendy and my soul sister @laurakennedycoach, (just to name a couple ❤️), I know there’s more. I’m meant to play at bigger levels. I’m meant to reach more people. I’m meant to awaken, heal, and evolve the collective consciousness. As I created my business goals for 2020 at the retreat, I was once again reminded my biggest fear isn’t that I’m not good enough, it’s that I won’t express the fullness of my gifts. Sharing this with you is an accountability post of sorts. It’s me declaring that it’s time. For what exactly? We’ll see. But I know it’ll be good. Following the breadcrumbs from my soul never leads me astray. So, as you dream up what this next day, month, and year has for you, don’t take the safe, small road. It’s boring there, but maybe you already know that. Trust the part of you that won’t quit wondering, ‘what if?’ I promise there’s so much goodness waiting for you on the other side of answering that question.
Insecurity in dating comes down to one thing: fear of being fully self-expressed. If you show all sides of yourself, will he stick around? Rather than find out, you try to hide the parts of your personality you think are unlovable or unworthy. Which is a fast track for people pleasing, eroding self-trust, numbing intuition, and all kinds of patterns that keep incredible women in disempowered dating dynamics. I know, because the fear of being fully seen (and therefore rejected) held me back my whole life. Then I realized for as deeply as I desired the emotional safety + security that comes from real intimacy, I was blocking it. By only letting men see the parts I thought they wanted, I put a barrier between my heart and theirs. I had to look at how my fear of being left was actually causing me to abandon myself. I cleaned that up (by shifting my Attraction Blueprint). Sometimes I still worry about what others think, but being so clear on who I am + what I’m about, loving + accepting that regardless of anyone else is what I always come back to. What would be possible in your love life, if you showed up fully self expressed? Knowing the whole spectrum of your multi-faceted self is what creates irresistible attraction. The range of who you are is a gift. Don’t be afraid to repel the wrong ones. Trust you’re simply magnetizing the right match.